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lovelostboy
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why does love have to be so hard?

Why does it seem like when you thought you loved someone that it was just bull. I mean i dated this girl for over a year. and within two months of our break up she was dating someone else. Everyone tells me to move on. but i can’t move on from the love of my life.

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 week after post)

Nobody said that getting over a break-up would be easy of fast, but it will happen for you. Early on, it helps if you can distract yourself by getting busy with projects or hanging out with other friends.

I found this article from AskMen.com — you may have already gotten this kind of advice before, but if not, read on…
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmit…

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tony1206 offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

hello

i had the same problem with a girl and I know breaking up is hard but dont let it get u down.
When U see her think or her as a friend and nothing more. Don’t try to remember to mmany good times cause its just going to get u even more upset. Remember just a friend and your love 4 her will start to fade.

GOOD LUCK MAN

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Spawn_Howland offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

This might sound realy dumb but love is hard to make you love more.

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allzvanity offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (5 months after post)

Maybe? she does not know how to love on a deeper level? she may have been with you for a year? but, Could be? that half the time
she was not as “Into the relationship? as say, like You were?…
This may explain How she could “Move on to the NEXT? person with such ease…
In this case..Thank your lucky stars that she is “His problem and no longer yours. (Looking on the bright side?) i am not making light of your loss? just trying to help you “Understand.
GBU

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