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Masculinity

Note: There’s really no point to this. This is just an emotional issue I’ve been dealing for a while and I wanted some sort of output. I have a question at the bottom but it’s purely rhetorical. I’d just appreciate someone reading this.

I’m gonna say it straight forward: I have very little or none. Please don’t misunderstand this and think I’m gay. I’m straight and proud. However, I have none of the features that a typical masculine male should have (in other words, all the features girls dream of).

I daresay I’m more feministic even. This may or may not sound narcissistic, but I think my X and Y chromosomes must have switched because (Aside from the two most OBVIOUS differences between a male and a female) I have a body of a female. Again, at this point, I’d like to mention I’m straight.

I don’t have broad shoulders and I’m skinny and I weigh 95 pounds. This isn’t because I don’t work out or because I don’t eat a lot. I’m just genetically like this. In fact, no matter how much push ups I do in my life, I’ll probably never gain any real significant change to my body. I’ve probably consumed more fast food then all my friends combined.

Question is this: What the hell am I suppose to do…..? Changing my sexual preference is out of the question. No girl will ever want a guy like me (I mean, even the chess team members are more muscular then me) and I think it’s so bad that it’s beyond teasing to the point of pitying. Well at any rate, if you read this I really appreciate it.

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