Love help: I’m going to be seeing my ex boyfriend next week. - Help.com

Is there any way you could avoid them?

avoid if possible, otherwise you wont be a happy camper. no way around it.

Well if you can’t avoid him then walk with your held high the moment will not last forever and DO NOT let him know he is getting to you! You can break down once you are alone but for that moment you need to muster every bit of strength you have to remain in control with a smile on your face looking beautiful and confident! He will wonder what is going on how come you are not cowering at the sheer sight of him!

I say befriend his new grilfriend.

Look fab, if you feel you look your best then your confidence will be sky high, start planning what you are going to wear now so that you don’t have a last minute panic, and be nice to them, and definatly don’t let him know how upset you are untill you have left, try and keep yourself busy before hand get your friends round to help you get ready to try and keep your mind occupied

daniellemusel wrote:
I say befriend his new grilfriend.

YOu sound like me. I’m in the same situation, BUT i refuse to see him with his new girlfriend. I’m happy that he’s happy, BUT his happiness caused my misery. Is that how you feel aswell? Look your best, hold your head high. Bring a boy toy for support if you’re like that. That is totally what i would do. BUT i’m vindictive and want to make their relationship fail. But yeah Look your best, act your best, and pretend to be happy for him. Or be a total B*tch. That is something i would also do. But do as i say not as i do.

You know, you could bring a girl toy instead… if you are in fact feeling vindictive… and make sure he knows that he turned you gay! You don’t actually have to be gay of course.

Ha Ha Ha (Evil laugh!)

helpmeee wrote:
thanks, haha. i am miserable because of his happiness. he broke me heart and now he is happy with someone else while i am thinking about him all the time. i wish he would just come back to me, and stop all this nonsense. i want to bring a boy toy and just act like everything’s cool and im not bothered by anything. however finding one may not be so easy. either way im going and im just going to act in a good mood, so hopefully he will think that ive moved on and could care less about his new girlfriend.

know how you feel same thing happened to me.

got any guy friends? ask them to come with you (wherever it is), and be honest with them about why. I’ve done that for some of my female friends before, its kinda fun actually lol.