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Is he cheating?

My boyfriend has been acting crazy lately and the way he is acting is making me wonder if he is cheating. Let me explain…One day I feel alseep and when I woke up he was gone. I called him twice, no answer, so I texted him twice…no answer. Well my friend called me and asked me if I wanted to go to this party with her and I said sure. So I got dressed and left…I got there started having fun and drinking..Well he called asking where I was and I told him. So he started getting pissed and going off…But I had not heard from him at that time in four hours…we argued and I hung up…I stayed at the party for about an hour and a friend took me home and I just left my car there. Well I got home and he was not there so I took a shower and went to bed. Two hours later he called asking me where I was and I told him. Well he told me that we was at Wal-Mart for the past six hours just looking at radios…(im not dumb)…So I told him whatever and hung up the phone going back to sleep. Well around 3:00 in the morning he woke me up by throwing a cup of water in my face. I jumped up and he starts yelling asking me why I leave the house and what party I go to and with who, etc. He started calling me dumb, liar, and was accusing me of sleeping with other people. He started going through my phone calling numbers starting fights with my guy friends…acting stupid. Now his phone is always locked and he texts this one girl all the time. He says she is just a friend but he talks to her more than me. He even got stranded one day about 45 miles from where we live and he called her instead of me……I have a feeling but I cant prove it…help me out!!!

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theresape offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Whether he’s cheating or not is NOT your greatest concern. The guy is manipulative, mean, and a phucking control freak. Are you sure you want to stay with this dude? It sounds to me like you’re on a collision course with abuse.

The first glass of water he threw in my face would be the last glass of water he threw in my face.

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sweetiejay offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Fern Tree Gully, 07, AU | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Agree 100% with theresape. He is an *******. Dump him and move on to someone worth your time.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I agree with the two above me as well. My ex husband started doing things like that and it eventually turned to abuse. Get out now while you can.

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chev.jame offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

You now have all the information you need to make a decision. Now, make it!

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cagerave offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (30 minutes after post)

i agree get out before the abuse gets worse

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Megan. offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (4 hours, 44 minutes after post)

wow.
everyone already said what i was thinking.

but yeah.
not only is this guy not good for you, he’s probably cheating anyway.
sounds a lot like it.

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