friends help: Im fucken sick of it

Miss Emotional

Im fucken sick of it

Im sick of them
My grandparents tell me all the time “act like a lady” “be lady like” “stop being a kid” your not a little kid anymore” **** that im only 15, i still wanna go and hang with my friends not stay at home and sit on the damm porch or have them going to back to school night. i go to school everyday but noooo i have to take my fucken grandma to back to school night so they can keep tabs on me!!!!!!!
“you go im not” i said
“oh hell your going”
“you can go, ill write down my classes for you”
“no”
Omg it pisses me off to no return
I have to go with them everywhere they go and if its durring school…”oh well wait for you so you can come with us”
“i dont wanna go, i have homwork to do”
“you can do ti when you get home”
Dont they know when i come home i wanna relax
Ill be sitting here in my room and ill hear “rebecca”
“what?”
“come here!”
*goes down stairs*
“what?”
“my lights unplugged, grab my pill to, get me a glass of water”
Hello im one person and get ur own god dam water!!!!
Or
Ill be sitting in my room and somone will walk in my room and start lecturing me about somthing i was planning to do later, and then they’ll say “no do it now!” dont i get any privacy?
And the worst of all
“janet this si the wrong presciptoon!”
“i didnt know jack”
“well you should”
“rebecca, call the doctor and see what ths is…”
Relay the answer
“call the pharmacy”
Relay the answers
*while on the phone* “did you do your homwork?….answer me!”
Im sick and tired of them keeping tabs on me, if they trust me enough they’d leave me the hell alone and get some counseling for themselfs. im tired of being treated like im 30 with two old parents watching you 247 and im tired of having to do thing for them. im a teenager, i dont really care about this, sure i care about my family…but acting like a lady hell…i burp in lunch just like the rest of my friends…i eat chocolate with my fries…hello! who dosent…im sick of it!!!
Just a rant…
Any ideas on what i can do?

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Communation 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Move out

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i agree with communation, or tell them you need to get your privacy, ooooor tell them your sick of them asking you to do stuff for them

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Tr�poli, 41, GR | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

talk with them and try ignoring them.. i would be sick of it too..

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

lol..i went through the same thing…everytime my mother asked me to do something or complained i got so upset to the point where i didn’t want to hear her voice. That eventually lead to us fist fighting. I regret it now because how selfish was i to hit the person that takes care of me.
if you do have somewhere else ot go than go ahead
or if you can explain to them how you feel
if you can’t
in time it will blow over
or
find some extra activities to do in school or out of school(it’ll give you some time to be away)
good luck)

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Communation 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Bexi wrote:
U cant move out till im 16 and even then i need parental permission or im clased as a runaway.

Talking wont help, Ibe tried it so many times..and they thro it back in my face with a load of guilt papercliped to it.

ALl you have to do is phone social services and say your careers are too onld to take care of you, and if you dont get help soon you will have to leave. They will either rehouse you or help you.

Or, you could kick some old person butt!

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (9 hours, 8 minutes after post)

wheres your parents why this is happening?

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Regina, SK, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 17 hours after post)

sounds like you are in a situation that you can’t get out of just yet, so why don’t you make the most out of it and perhaps get to know your grandparents?

I lost my grandpa when I was 16, and I had a troubling childhood, actually non existent, but that’s a different story. You see we take for granted alot of things, and I didn’t realize it until I was in a situation in my 30’s where I helped out my husband’s grandfather who was diagnosed with Alzhiemer’s. For all I know he and my own grandpa could have met, wouldn’t that have been something, both of them fighting in the war together… but there are a few things that I have taken with the experience and that is that family is family no matter who you are, or who they are. The best that you can do is all you can do to see that they know that they are appreciated and loved and that thier efforts eventhough you may not agree was worth while.

Your grandparents have taken you in, and they love you, and they are alot older now and maybe you need to cut them some slack, life isn’t always going to be this way, and perhaps when you are older, and have life under your belt abit, you probably will find your way back to them, and visit and spend time with them more than you ever did! They are needing someone to take care of them… or will need… would you reciprocate?
Respect goes a long way… you are very fortunate you are not a child that has been forced to live on the street… Love is a precious thing…Please don’t over look that. They love you deeply.

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