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ok i took everyones advice for this one but iv run into somtin else.

and maybe can a few girls answer this from their point of view? like what would the reason be that someone would do this. anyways, theres a girl i reallly like but i barely know her. i was advised to talk to her and get to know her better, it worked for a little while (i am not going on too strong i dont bother her 24/7, i only txt her like once every 2 or 3 days, and if she doesnt answer i dont say anything) i know a little more, but today i txt her and she answered, then i asked her another question to start off a convo, and she hasent responded. i was wondering if it even sent cause the signal was kinda low, so i went somewhere else were the sig was alot better and sent it again, and stil no reply. i know i may be over reacting, but im freaking out here and havin an enxiety attack. talk me through this?

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

maybe shes talking to some one else dont freek out

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

maybe, but iv resent the txt like an hour after i sent the origional one, and she would have got it and responded if there were no problems

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

maybe there busy give them time find something to keep you interested till they reply

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i sent it at 5 tho. its almost 9 >

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

maybe they ate and went to bed x?

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

maybe. but i dunno, she seems like the type whod stay up later or somtin. and she would have said somtin if she was going to bed and didnt want me to wake her up

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

im realy not that great with girls maybe some stud could help

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

hopefuly. i dont want to be freaking out all nightt :S

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iggy_be offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Dont freak out. If you were just advised to talk to her… I dont see what the big deal is unless you are in love with her. Theres no need to worry about someone who doesnt “txt” you back. If your so inclined to talk to her, call her, and if shes a ***** then dont call her back. lol

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ONETYME offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Have you went out any where with her or at least asked?

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miamidf offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Yah dont freak out she probably has a life and things to do or just doing something
Hey um it might also have to do with what you said
hope you didnt say anything stupid to her

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (49 minutes after post)

ONETYME wrote:
HAVE YOU WENT OUT ANY WHERE WITH HER OR AT LEAST ASKED?

i hung out with her at the fair

miamidf wrote:
Yah dont freak out she probably has a life and things to do or just doing somethingHey um it might also have to do with what you saidhope you didnt say anything stupid to her

i didnt say anything stupid, just stuff like ‘’heyy how have you been lately'’ or ‘’what are you up to?'’

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (51 minutes after post)

iggy_be wrote:
Dont freak out. If you were just advised to talk to her… I dont see what the big deal is unless you are in love with her. Theres no need to worry about someone who doesnt “txt” you back. If your so inclined to talk to her, call her, and if shes a ***** then dont call her back. lol

and im afraid to call her, (dont want to call her at her work cause that would be embarassing lol)

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miamidf offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (53 minutes after post)

o well than ill just say shes doing something else maybe sleeping
and dont keep thinking bout it bc than how r you gonna sleep?

Just talk to her dont be afraid if you like her than you like talking to her so…

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (57 minutes after post)

possibly, or maybe her phone ran out of power or somtin. there might be a logical explaination, but i always tend to think for the worst

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miamidf offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Jez thats not a good habit always thinking the worst.?

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ONETYME offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

did show any interest in you at the fair or when you talk to her?

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JAG10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (21 hours, 40 minutes after post)

i know it isnt a good habit, but its somtin i cant seem to help. but i am trying to fix it. and she did seem a little bit interested, but im still not sure. she did give me her number

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