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Nuture VS Nature.

from ur point of view choose which one u think has the greatest impact on u or becoming a person. and choose only one. both do impact u but which do u suppose has the greatest impact. and y. and please try to convince me why u think so.

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Definitely nurture!
It may sound strange, but i think somewhere within human DNA and brainwiring is the ability to transend and evolve through conscious will!

Of course, it helps if you have been raised to believe this is possible…
Sounds like an oxymoron…
But if the will is nurtured in the right way… you can use it to change your very nature!

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 201 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

very well said That is the side i am always on. but don’t u think that if there was a chemical imbalince that it could hav a big impact and have much more of an effect and change how u would hav been if u didn’t i know the answer but tell me.

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Not an easy one to answer…
But having suffered depression in the past, (so a very probable chemical imbalance there) I used my will power to overcome it anyway!

Dont ask me how!
There was something else… can’t put my finger on what… but it kind of drove me to survive!

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 201 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (49 minutes after post)

Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Not an easy one to answer…
But having suffered depression in the past, (so a very probable chemical imbalance there) I used my will power to overcome it anyway!

Dont ask me how!
There was something else… can’t put my finger on what… but it kind of drove me to survive!

well i am happy that u got over it. i don’t think its the best day in the park to go through that.

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Nurture, it does the most impact. I can’t think of any reason why and if i do I can’t seem to translate it to writings.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

there is nurture and nature and past life experience with all its karma.
Karma can be both good and bad.These hive a large influence on us.
have a friend who’s a good artist and had the skill very early in life.
Nurture or nature cannot explain how she had the skill.
It obviously developed over a much longer period of time. In her previous lives.
So the nurture versus nature is very limited in its analysis of reality.
Scientists are yet to understand and appreciate this.
Why it is taking so long I do not know.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 hours, 18 minutes after post)

From my own experience I would have to say ‘nurture’ b/c of the damage done by my parent. thats not to say it has totally ruined my life because I have learned from it and used it , but so many don’t and tend to repeat it. But I could be wrong since I know more about nurturing than I do ‘nature’. but with this thought if you know me I think I could be wrong because I strongly believe everything plays it’s part so I don’t think one could be more important than the other. i hope this helps.

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 hours, 37 minutes after post)

nurture is the nature of things
the nature of life
providence

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Cutie, he he :D if you didn’t see it there’s a link on this page that may help too :) sometimes we tend to overlook those

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (16 hours, 56 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
there is nurture and nature and past life experience with all its karma.
Karma can be both good and bad.These hive a large influence on us.
have a friend who’s a good artist and had the skill very early in life.
Nurture or nature cannot explain how she had the skill.
It obviously developed over a much longer period of time. In her previous lives.
So the nurture versus nature is very limited in its analysis of reality.
Scientists are yet to understand and appreciate this.
Why it is taking so long I do not know.

Yes… This is a good reply. I too believe in karma in reincarnation!
There is too much knowledge and memory inside my head that could have only come from this life-time alone!

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Max offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 195 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 hours, 14 minutes after post)

I feel we are all products of or environment and to nurture each other continually will make it a more caring world extending our families. It takes a community to raise a child and a bad environment to make a monster. Even most monsters want to be nurtured:) United we are strong.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Dougie the Pisces wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
there is nurture and nature and past life experience with all its karma.
Karma can be both good and bad.These hive a large influence on us.
have a friend who’s a good artist and had the skill very early in life.
Nurture or nature cannot explain how she had the skill.
It obviously developed over a much longer period of time. In her previous lives.
So the nurture versus nature is very limited in its analysis of reality.
Scientists are yet to understand and appreciate this.
Why it is taking so long I do not know.

Yes… This is a good reply. I too believe in karma in reincarnation!
There is too much knowledge and memory inside my head that could have only come from this life-time alone!

Maybe that would explain my wisdom,MMMmmm thats something to ponder. Thanks spiratec. I may have to look into this more :)

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 201 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day after post)

Cap¤Amic wrote:
Nurture, it does the most impact. I can’t think of any reason why and if i do I can’t seem to translate it to writings.

happens to me, to b unable to write a reason why but i do hav it but just can’t seem to put it down.

spiratec9 wrote:
there is nurture and nature and past life experience with all its karma.
Karma can be both good and bad.These hive a large influence on us.
have a friend who’s a good artist and had the skill very early in life.
Nurture or nature cannot explain how she had the skill.
It obviously developed over a much longer period of time. In her previous lives.
So the nurture versus nature is very limited in its analysis of reality.
Scientists are yet to understand and appreciate this.
Why it is taking so long I do not know.

no offence but its science, not karmance. and i agree with the development of her skill and all but the point of science isn’t do good and good happens to u. i do know alot of aholes in my life that hav lived a pretty freaking happy and awsome life but being jack ases. so i’m trying on this karma thing so i’ll check into it cause i know i’ve been everlasingly good and alot of screw up things seem to happen to me.

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tarek.17 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 months after post)

Definrtly nurture!!! At least for me!
I can tell this from the depression me and my brother have..We sit quietly in social gatherings while my cousins and other family members speak and joke..Simply we were raised this way(used to it)We never had the chance to be popular or unique.We were raised to be so serious.
I feel iam in a struggle with my mind!I cant follow my will. Iam trapped with my depression.
But I feel also that another reason for my depression is my inner stress and hyperactivity.But I cant know if these are resulting from my depression or they are the cause of my depression(in this case it would be nature not nurture).Thats what turning me crazy! CAnt find the origin of my problem

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