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Has anyone heard of this obituary where the family wrote the HONEST and simple truth about one of their relatives? It was a harash and mean obituary supposedly! They said “this lady would not be missed” and “she got what she had coming to her.” Something to that effect. I was wondering because my older cousin told me about it. Her church used the obituary as an example of why people should watch how they are in life towards their loved ones and just the people they encounter period. PLEASE HELP! :o)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I think that it is awful!!
I think that it doesnt matter how you hated the person
I think that they need to just keep mean comments like that to themselves and just say something nice about them doesnt matter how vague it might be but it might just work.

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ReBuildingALife offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

yeah, but I want to read it. My cousin said that it reminds her of what could possibly be said about our grandma. but the lesson that she described that the church gave that day seemed like a beneficial one!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

:O what is wrong with that church might i ask?

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ReBuildingALife offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

I dunno…my cousin’s church. In Indiana.

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Sarah1ders offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

niceness, hm wonder y they did it.

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ReBuildingALife offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

I dunno. the lady was mean and horrible so they told the truth of how they felt. The church used it as an example for how sad it is that a family was mistreated so badly that NO ONE thought they should just bite their tongues and say nice things and keep the bad thoughts to themselves.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Oh yeah I’ve seen it, let me see if I can find it.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Here it is: http://redwolf.newsvine.com/_news/200…

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ReBuildingALife offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 hours, 22 minutes after post)

You are AMAZING!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Wow! That is just sad! Thanks again MitzY-superMODel!

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Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 hours, 31 minutes after post)

http://sfist.com/2008/08/18/update_do…

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (17 hours, 34 minutes after post)

JackieMa wrote:
You are AMAZING!

Thanks!

JackieMa wrote:
Wow! That is just sad! Thanks again MitzY-superMODel!

And you’re welcome!
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