marriage help: no we have been togather before the divorces even came up we both had bad relationships his wife used to beat him and mine the same. - Help.com

no we have been togather before the divorces even came up we both had bad relationships his wife used to beat him and mine the same.

we were close so we was there for each other. We have been together since december since then he acts like he doesnt trust me whatsoever i guess its because of 3 times i have lied to him so i deserve that huh. but still i feel like if he loved me he would let that go.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

“his wife used to beat him and mine the same”

Out of curiosity, do you mean your husband or are you a guy?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

my husband

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Okay sorry just wondering.

what did you lie to him about?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

a coupple of things i realy dont want to discuss

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I respect that but to be completeley honest it would be easier to give advice if the people here knew the whole story, but I respect your right to privacy.

Have you talked to him?

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Trust is everything. If he feels he cannot trust you, there is nothing on which to base the relationship. Once destroyed, trust is most difficult to rebuild.

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