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Where are YOU? At the risk of taking people off my lists I decided to make a post to give you a chance to stay. I don’t mind too much to click on every box when inviting but every time I see your faces (avatars) I wonder where you are and what happened, if anything.So I have invited all of you who I havent had any or very little contact with me for a while. Why? the main reason is I miss you.At one time there must have been a connection or you would not be there. The other reason is I wonder how much ,if any, does it matter about my posts,replies etc.. of religious reference makes to you. These are very important to me and so are YOU! Some of you have expressed how you don’t reply to my invites b/c you don’t know what to say and I understand that, afterall for the most part my posts are not asking for mY help.But know this,this post is not about that.I just want to know who I can and who I wont remove so let me know here and if i dont hear from you- goodbye ,for now at least. Thanks, Your friend, Kim
I’m going to be honest: When I’m invited to an irrelevant subject that I don’t know anything about or don’t have much interest I just pass it up. You do have ones I like to read that can benefit me, but some times I just don’t know how to respond so I don’t.
Felicity invited 69 users to read this post 1 year, 2 months ago.
Its my first day here, so don’t quite know what you’re trying to say.
You want help on something? I thought that was the vibe of this site. If you’re feeling lonely or distrustful and want people to say hello, might be best to be brave and accept yourself and just say it plain.
I respect the “taking people off the list”. I have too many facebook friends I haven’t connected with in a long time and it does seem a touch false. I feel friendship mostly is about commonality, and its best not to try and fake or forse it. Quality over quantity they say.
chunky, no, i dont need help. Thanks anyway :) Im glad you stopped my though . YOu sound like good Help dawt com material. Welcome :D to explain the purpose of my post more when we have a lot of friends and want to invite all of them to a post we need to click on each one individually and this takes time when theres a lot of them.thats just the least purpose though. YOu’ll see what I mean after you’ve been here a while and have many more .Which brings me to -If you want I’ll add you as a friend. I believe strongly in ‘Quality over Quantity too :)
Dan, I didn’t invite you did I? YOu answer my posts, a lot too :) and we talk all the time. If I did i assure you it was a mistake on my part and IM truly sorry :(
I don’t know you, but I would say that this is most definitely not a waste of time.
You sound interesting.
[quote the.sophenator]I don’t know you, but I would say that this is most definitely not a waste of time.
You sound interesting.[/quote This post is turning out unexpected but good :D I;ll add you to if you want
Sorry bout the wait Chunky, it couldnt be helped :/ if you havent figured it out just click on the blue man on the users reply or on their profile page.
Hi Kim, I did e mail you….did you get it through….it explained what was going on my end…keep me posted…regards…Wayne
Good morning lovely lady. I personally think you have a heart of gold. As you know though I hold no tronc with relegion* can’t even spell it.lol. But you are more than welcome to invite me to posts you feel are relevent to me. I pick and choose who to invite to posts in occordance to my understanding of the invitee.
BTW you didn’t invite me here I just popped by…Xx
[quote Namaste`]Hi Kim, I did e mail you….did you get it through….it explained what was going on my end…keep me posted…regards…Wayne[/quo No, can’t say that I have. I don’t have a real good memory though, maybe if you gave me a clue on your email address it would help but I went through all my contacts and dont see any that might be you :/
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Good morning lovely lady. I personally think you have a heart of gold. As you know though I hold no tronc with relegion* can’t even spell it.lol. But you are more than welcome to invite me to posts you feel are relevent to me. I pick and choose who to invite to posts in occordance to my understanding of the invitee.
Y, thank YOU smoogie :) you always so nice, as far as revelence I do try to do that but I have ADD which for me that means a scattered mind and memory issues.and you know what ? I dont know much about you, I’ll have to get to work on that asap. Tanx 4 popping by, yur alwayz welcome :D
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I’m a mom with 2 young kids, so I don’t have a lot of time to respond to posts. Once in awhile I’ll come on the site to try to help someone, and read some of your posts. I appreciate the invitations, but understand it’s probably a pain for you to keep clicking on each box. Also, last time I responded to you, it seems like I offended you with my wording, (wasn’t my intention) so I am careful what I say. (I’m also kind of a shy person when it comes to talking about myself, which some of your wonderful posts would require.) I think you’re a great person, and appreciate what you’re doing for so many.
Summer is my busy season. We work 10 and 12 hour days sometimes during a project. Equipment and schedules are expensive, trying to beat the snow is crucial here in ski town USA/ When Im not working, I am on my boat camping and fishing for up to 10 days.
Another problem for me is I get out of the loop and advatars change. For awhile I didn’t realize you were the same person. I am use to you with your old.
But yes, I did fade I guess. I cant say from any problem or attitude taken on either side. I guess I am picking what I feel I can get or give to a post. Interests and problems differ in everyones life.
I have participated before and cant really say Kim anything is wrong, I will pay more attention and thank you for letting me know your heart. I take time away and loose connection.
I’m sorry for not responding to your posts but your aren’t the only ones. If I don’t have anything to contribute to a post I don’t say anything.
Hey MamaBear,
Everything is just really crazy for me right now, freshman year in college!! Be assured these posts are getting read I just haven’t had the time to make any kind of meaningful reply. I apologize and once things settle down, you’ll be hearing a lot more from me.
I get invited to a lot of topics. But if there’s nothing for me to say, I don’t.
Your threads usually get lots of replies, and I prefer to spend my (limited) time working my way through the list hitting things that interest me and ignoring anything that doesn’t.
Overall, I prefer threads where I’m talking directly to a person who has asked for advice about a particular thing, and even then I often only say my piece and then leave.
I’m not always near the pc and i saw your invites after days you invited me … the problem is the most of times I feel like there is no reason to write a reply after many.. i mean if you had already discussed the potential question then I have nothing to say anymore …
but I’m trying to reply as much as i can and I do it as many times i feel it has a reason
Hello! The reason you don’t see much on your posts is because I am not here very much these days. I recently moved across country and started a new job. My life has been hetic, yet wonderful. I try to stop in as often as possible, but I rarely have enough time to read all my invites or respond. I have always enjoyed all of your posts and I think you have much wisdom to give.
Yes well I have been very busy lately so I’m not at help much. I try to stop by as often as possible. I do look at your posts from time to time but I find it more interesting to read the replies rather than take part in it, if that makes sense haha You have helped me get through a situation once, that much I remember, thanks again:) I agree with Maximina, have a wonderful day/week
Mamabear .. wow i dont know what to say .. first off i can start with im sry …
ive been slacking my job as a help.com helper .. lately its just ive been busy with my own personal life that i havent found the right time to logg on here …
Ive been busy with trying to find universities and trying to find myself ….. ive been busy with trying to figure out what i want to do with my future and trying to think of where im going to be after i graduate , and school started for me .. and its my senior year … so a lot has been happening with me …
I do logg on every once a week now … and then i see ur invits.. that were send like 5 days ago… i would feel already late in replying ..
I used to logg in everyday .. help as many people as i can .. but now im sick of the internet ..
I used to sit everyday for more than 5 hrs …. so i kinda got too attached … so the past month i tried to sit a bit less even in my free time ..
I apologize … i feel horrible .. and i guess noone on this site remembers me bc i havent been on for ages ! lol … I’m gonna try my best to logg in more often .. and i promise as soon as i settle in school and get used to the new system, and as soon as my future is a bit clear to me .. ill get back to becoming the constant help.com user …
thank u for ur concern! * hugs *
ill be on more often … =D
bye for now !
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