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I Saw My Female Friend Macking On A Guy; And Now We’re Not Friends
So, earlier today I caught my close (female) friend just totally macking on some random guy, and whilst I wanted to attribute it to being friendly, better judgement settled in later when she told me that he was highly attractive. However, somewhere in between all of this, some thing transpired that didn’t seem like a fight, but consisted of her calling me names to our mutual friends, ultimately leading to an online messenger conversation wherein she totally trashed me, called me a ‘creep,’ and stated that we weren’t talking again. This being an instant messenger, I could hardly cement the situation. Later on, when our friends wanted to hang out with her she responded with a ‘no,’ but left a message for our one friend telling him the simple reason was because I was with them. After hearing this I called her, she called me a ‘creep’ and said that we were no longer friends and hung up. She also removed me from her social networking friends lists.
That’s just how things went today. Previously, and this week in particular, we seemed extraordinarily close; we were pretty much talking every day. I honestly don’t see what could have changed so quickly? Also, she was more or less becoming my best friend, and I really can’t stand for this, because, I’ll be without a best friend. And perhaps it’s notable that she started dating some guy (not the same guy she was macking on) I bluntly told her I don’t approve of earlier in the week?
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