Money help: Someone please, please, help me.

janel.gallaghe

Someone please, please, help me.

I have nothing. I have no one.
I’m lost. Alone. And terrified.
I have lost everything. And now I’m losing my mind.

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Me as you know 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Been there. Done that. How can I help?

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Perry The Platypus 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

try going to sleep

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thep 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

What I am about to say isn’t as silly as it sounds. When life has got to this stage, it is time to start anew.
You have lost everything, everybody there is nothing left. It is in fact a new starting point to a new life.
You have a chance to build the life you want, without the encumberances of the old one. It is time to start building it.

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Nante 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Whats wrong?
Why do you feel this way?

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In_my_Hands 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Oh, I’m so sorry! I hope that things get better :)

Perry The Platypus 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

hi nante,
ur a funny guy

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janel.gallaghe 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

The short version…
I’ve been used, abused, betrayed, abandoned by everyone in my life.
I’m alone in the world.
I’m struggling. I have tried so very hard to get over it, be a happy, optimistic, confident person, despite everything.
And no one can help me. No one cares.
I can’t afford things. My bills. Payments. And it keeps getting worse.
I want to succeed. I want to graduate. I don’t want my life to be a complete waste.
In order to afford college, I decided to sell myself.
I figured, I survived r*pe. Even though I hate s*x. Even though it terrifies me. I needed the money.
And all sorts of horrible things happened.
I’m disgusted with myself.
I want to die. I hate myself. Everything that happened was my fault. It was my choice. I deserved it all.
I’m shaking. I get so scared. I can’t breathe sometimes. And everyone I see has his face. And everything hurts.
I’m losing my mind.
I don’t know what to do. Die. Run away.

Help me. Please, please, please. Someone help me.

Dorian 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Hey Janel, what’s happened to get you feeling like this?

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Dorian 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Okay, from the sounds of things you should probably talk to someone professional about this. Are you still in college?

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thep 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

It looks like Dorian Valentine has the right answer. Why not let Dorian help you with this?

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janel.gallaghe 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I can’t afford someone professional.

I’m still in college.

janel.gallaghe changed the tags on this post: they were "Mind, lost, Terrified" 1 year, 2 months ago.

Barbyman 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

janelnow listen every person on this Planet is selling him or herself one or another Way. Grate Actors sleep with Producers more or less” Forced ” One has to do .if they want the Part. One has to do what one has to do in Life to succeed.Don’t even think about it .keep going to college or whatever,Finnish College get that Job what pays Mega Bucks and relax.Just to tell Sharon Stone slept with Michael Douglas and with the Writer of the book something with Instinct ,cant think of it at this moment and she said so on TV .Both were no good in Bed .But she got the part .Please calm down Girl relax and let life take its Course .May the Force guide you to better Things to come…..

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chev.jame 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (37 minutes after post)

You need a big friend. God works for me. And I am being absolutely, completely and totally serious. Life is tough. It’s even tougher if you don’t have God.

Dorian 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (52 minutes after post)

janel.gallaghe wrote:
I can’t afford someone professional.

I’m still in college.

Your college will probably have counsellors or student mentors on site. They’ll be trained to offer you proper face-to-face advice about stuff like this, so it’s worth checking out.

My two cents is that you shouldn’t hate yourself for doing what you felt you had to do. You can certainly say that everything, or almost everything in your life is the result of the decisions you’ve made, but at the same time not all of the stuff that’s happened to you is your fault. Being r*ped, for example, is most definitely not your fault, and don’t forget it.

The best advice I can offer you is to try your best to put everything that’s happened behind you. I know that’s easier said than done, but with help you can get through all this. You might have made mistakes in the past, but you can’t change that now so there’s no point beating yourself up about them. What’s done is done, and what matters is that you use your past to make yourself a stronger person in the present, so you’ll make better decisions in the future.

Hope some of this helps, sorry about the essay!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

You are loved, God loves you and he knows how you hurt please give it all over to Him He sent His Son for you so you can trust Him. I don’t know why you had to endure such horrible pain, but I do know that none of anything you have been through is your fault. you did what you needed to do or what you thought you needed to do. satan is very convincing. You are smart, You are obviously very strong and you are ment to do amayzing things with your life. As far as college you most likely are eligable for grants and financial aid, go speak to the financial aid officer of your school. There are many ways to pay for school without hurting your self. Give your self a break. Please seek out counceling, and remember you are washed clean in the blood of Jesus Christ you only need to ask. It’s time to look up.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

I have been reading some papers a man gave me out of no where he told me he saw pain in my eyes and he was right well this one has helped me a lot this is called letters from above.

a drop of his love

Lovely child of my own hand. what manner of separation has dispair deceived you into lonliness. i am so alive around you , able to heal and comfort that which satan has bruised in your heart.
Come unto me that by my love your burden be lifted. wait on me that the joy of predestined blessings fill your life in due seasons.
Persevered for my sake. i have not abandoned you but call you my own.
I love you and will forever love you . you are a forever blessing in my heart ……in my kingdom.

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molotok 29 #
G�vle, 03, SE | 1 year, 2 months ago (14 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Dear girl, pick up the thread which Dorian is giving to you.
And I am sure that Dorian will talk to you in the shoutboxes, if you prefer.
I will certainly reply if you ask me.

I am not an atheist, but faith does not solve these problems for you.
And you don’t have to ask somebody to get cleaned, you are clean whenever you decide that you are.
Besides you were probably clean all the time, who are we to judge that?

So use the worldly resources which are there for you, free of charge.

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janel.gallaghe 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I don’t qualify for financial aid. I’ve talked to them several times. I refuse to take time off. I’m terrified that I won’t ever come back.

And I talked to a friend, and she’s going to go with me to the campus counseling center tomorrow.

Thank you Dorian.

Thank you, everyone.

Dorian 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Any time :) Drop me a shout if you need to talk!

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