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tell her u want to send a postcard or photos or something

But that defeats the purpose cause she’ll know he’s planning something :P

Maybe next time you guys get together offer to take her home, escort her to the front door, too. Or if its one of those kinds of apartments it might have a doorbell function in the foyer with her name on it :P

fine, the sneaky way to do it then is ask her to send something, like a photo to remember her by, then u get the return to sender address off the back of the whatever she sends and she has no idea shes gonna get something in return

F.anjel wrote:
But that defeats the purpose cause she’ll know he’s planning something :P

Maybe next time you guys get together offer to take her home, escort her to the front door, too. Or if its one of those kinds of apartments it might have a doorbell function in the foyer with her name on it :P

she’s away at school so visiting her won’t do lol

Away at school, you mean like a dorm?

Another way, you can get to know her friends a bit more, and once you do, pick a nice girlfriend of theirs, confess you need her address, and see if she gives it to you. Of course for this you gotta be a trusted member of the group :P

It does not! Depends how you approach and how close you are to the girl anyway

Do you know the name of the apartment building, and if so, can you get contact information from the office there? If so, they can let her know they’re holding something for her and to come get it, but you probably want to check and make sure they’ll do it first.

can you get ahold of her friends or parents?