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I’m losing my best friend:(

A few months back, me and my friend Kate were really close. Always talking, always with each other, etc etc.

I don’t know what happened, but recently, I feel like we’re not as good friends as we used to be, and my other best friend Mark is now becoming very good friends with her instead.

In comparison, I feel like I was a really lousy friend to her and I’m kinda happy she’s found a better friend. At the same time, I want us to be as close friends as we used to be:(

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okei! 102 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

just talk w/ her. straighten things out w/ her. at least u had given ur friendship w/ her another shot. and didn’t give up easily. but if that still fails, then i guess no choice, but to move on.

Help me with: w/c is harder, to learn to love someone u don’t love or to wait 4 d one u love, hoping someday he’ll love u back?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

We’re still friends, in fact I’m talking to her now. It just seems like we’re distant friends now. My friend Mark is more of a friend to her atm than I am, and that’s saying something considering me and Kate were inseparable at times.

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okei! 102 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (30 minutes after post)

it’s gud ur still friends. if ur distant friends maybe d remedy is to be visible to her much often, letting her know u r just here for her come wat may. or maybe she also wants to take a breather on ur frienship w/ her, just give it time. let her know u 2 are still the best of friends, but at the same time u still respect her privacy and space

Help me with: w/c is harder, to learn to love someone u don’t love or to wait 4 d one u love, hoping someday he’ll love u back?

oloo #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Yeah, maybe we should do something together sometime. I’ll invite Mark too, and I’ll make sure i’m not just a spectator, watching on the sidelines

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Don’t worry too much about it. The exact same thing happened to me and my best friend. He got closer to someone else. After I spoke with him, it was because he was in love with the other person. Now in two weeks were are going to Italy together. It all works out just fine. You just need to question and understand some things. Is Kate in love with Mark? This may be a cause.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

this is happening to me :’(

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

this is happeing to me and my bestfriend too. we feel like weve lost each other and were not the same anymore, i remeber we used to say that were bestfriends forever but now were just drifting apart, but i have to respect her choice on what she wants to do, i apolgise to her everyday and tell her i love her but even if she doesnt accept i have to respect her desition and move on, cause not every friend ship was ment to be, if your friend isnt accepting yor apoligy maby the friend ship was a mistake, i do love my bestfriend though just like you love yours, but youl get over it, cause youl see who youur real bestfriend is when the rest of the world walks out your bestfriend walks in. just remember that bestfriends a promise not a lable.

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