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i kill help bots offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

If your looking for a male best friend, and all i could say is just aobut that part- a gay male. No sex-worries there, and some will probably want female company too. good luck

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 54 minutes after post)

asexual, you reproduce with yourself?! lol, jk.

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Soulmate, where you at?! I know it’s not easy to find you but dang, can’t you give me a hint?! I’ve been wanting a male friend for years but whenever I try to get ‘close’ to them they start wanting to date and I don’t want that! I’m asexual, I just want a close friendship with a guy because sometimes I just don’t connect with women. My best friend is female and she’s awesome but I just wish I could find a close FRIENDship with a guy who doesn’t want to get romantically involved. I wish there were more gay guys out there because I wouldn’t have to worry about that kind of thing then.
My ex tells me I’ll ‘never be happy if I don’t get married’. He asks me, what am I going to do, just be a loner all my life because I don’t want to get romantically involved? Well I don’t know but I can’t help it if I’m asexual. I’d love to settle down with someone, preferably male, someone who can be a soulmate and we can just live happily non-sexually ever after under a magic rainbow of joy and birdsong.
Hah.
Which is kind of disturbing, because I do - really I do - understand how impossible that sounds. How improbable it is that that will ever happen. I love daydreaming but in this case it’s just going to depress me. If I can’t have it like that I’d at least like a good friend.
And SO, soulmate, wherever you are, you had better be listening to this and feeling awful guilty of the fact that you haven’t shown up in my life yet. *guilt guilt*
(That was me being obnoxious. I’m not really a presumptuous crump.)
I guess this was more of a rant… I don’t see how anyone could possibly offer any advice, so don’t feel oblilgated.

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