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Please tell me what you think.

Tonight I went to a concert, the same concert my ex of 2 months was attending with his new girlfriend and a couple of (ex)mutual friends….Anyway I spotted my ex with his new flashy girlfriend and attempted to avoid them….seeing them together was not something I was neccessarily ready for, also of course they were hanging all over eachother. Well towards the end of the concert, the last song actually, some random guy asked me if I wanted to go up on his shoulders so I say yes, and went up! My ex spotted at me and glared at me for a long time, I dont think he knew we were making eye contact (?) and then proceeded to nudge one of his friends who ended up rolling his eyes and scoffing . Did I do something wrong by doing this??? I didn’t mean any harm (trust me, Im still unfortunatley in love/stuck on my ex) and don’t understand why I would get this sort of reaction….Why do you think I got this sort of responset from them??

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R.A.M offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Well,
I kinda dont think you did anythign wrong…
But thats my opinion…
as an explanation for his actions, well I think he my have thought that you were making a fool of yourself… thats why the rolling of the eyes and all…

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needingmuchadvice8 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Was I? I hope I wasn’t making a fool of myself..

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I’m sure you didn’t do anything. I’m sure they just thought that you did that to make him jealous or something stupid. If you really want to konw, you should ask him, if you two are speaking.

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needingmuchadvice8 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

It’s just frusterating, because I didn’t do it to make him jealous, I didn’t even consider him at all in deciding to do that…i dont want him to think that

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

You were having fun.. sounds like he was just jealous/being a jerk.

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stuck offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 hours, 51 minutes after post)

yeah sounds like he was being jealous and an ****!! try not to let it worry u. As long as u where having fun its nothing to do with him anymore

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anonymou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 hours, 52 minutes after post)

true! i’m caring about it less and less as the day goes on.

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