homework help: Hi i just started college and im already so behind in homework i honestly cant keep up and im so stressed out i really dont know what to do. - Help.com

thank you so much its just that im not really good in stressful situations i barely graduated from High School not because im not smart, but basically for the main reason that its so much pressure and i get so nervous

lol what?

i dont get what you said so i should just pretend i did the homwork

like i have to do a speech and im like scared and i do not understand how to do the outline and my english class he collects everything

a struggle in your life and you have to talk about it for six minutes oh it going to be bad yea i feel like everyone is going to laugh

i dont know its just a fear and normally im outgoing but not with people i dont know and this boy did a speech yesterday and the assholes laughed at him and it looked like he wanted to run and hide

I hope you all dont mind me, but i this blog and i said “finally im not the only one who’s behind too.” you see, im not a genius, but i use to be a great student, but now im diffrent.

supertitan210 wrote:
I hope you all dont mind me, but i this blog and i said “finally im not the only one who’s behind too.” you see, im not a genius, but i use to be a great student, but now im diffrent.

me too i used to be able to keep up now im struggling

pghuma wrote:
if you dont know them dont listen to them and that guy who laughed, well when he does his speech then laugh at him.

but im too kind to laugh at him lol i dont no i would never laugh at anyone who has enough courge but i dont no how to even start this speech or even talk about something for six minutes i dont even no how to start the stupid outline which is important i think

yea, I had a scholarship to go to college and now im blowing it away because of motivation i guess.

no.. dont laugh at him. dont follow his road of he wants to look idiot..

yea im trying to get great grades so i can get into penn state so i can get my medical degree in vet med and its not looking to good im trying but when i get stressed i shut down

i took public speaking class. my grandfather was a teacher and he tuaght me every thing about public speaking. There is NO SECRET TO IT!!! lol.. its practice and you have to prepare for a speech.

F… it and Fail your class and when you’r redoing it next year, you will see that you wont stress as much as you did before.

ya but i feel like even tho i am good at talking lol to friends that im going to just start studdering and not no what to do and forget everything

no offense, but man u guys have no life… majio is asking for help and guys are doing the complete opposite.

creasyli wrote:
F… it and Fail your class and when you’r redoing it next year, you will see that you wont stress as much as you did before.

my dad would kill me if i failed he would kick me out and my mom is coming back from iraq and i want to make her proud failing would make her want to kill me lol like she would flip out ….. its like shes amazing and i suck

supertitan210 wrote:
no offense, but man u guys have no life… majio is asking for help and guys are doing the complete opposite.

youre so sweet honestly i couldnt thank you enough
i just dont want to be a faliure and just want to be something my parents can be proud of and i feel like im going to dissapoint them

well the first step to success is believing it. u have to believe ur self that u can do it. ur no different!

I know, majio sorry, ignore my comment.
But dude, you have to get it thru your head.
Like it or not you have to finish your college in order to get a job in the future.
In order to finish your college you have study and pass your class.
In order to pass your class, you better start to study now rather instead of wasting time to read our comments.
W

then start working on change.. like… doing hw on time with help… make study groups.

it helps alot if u have friend that can motivate u and keep u on track..

creasyli wrote:
I know, majio sorry, ignore my comment.
But dude, you have to get it thru your head.
Like it or not you have to finish your college in order to get a job in the future.
In order to finish your college you have study and pass your class.
In order to pass your class, you better start to study now rather instead of wasting time to read our comments.
W

i understand what youre saying but like i dont even no were to get started and i like reading your comments they are helping, but its just that i really dont no how to handle the stress

supertitan210 wrote:
it helps alot if u have friend that can motivate u and keep u on track..

to tell you the truth all my friends are going the easy route taking time away from school and/ or just working for their parents

if u dont mind me asking where r u from? u said u wanted to go to penn state.

wat about people in class. make friends and class mates.

i am from chicago and my dream since i was 8 was to go to penn state… and ya i think i will try to meet the kids in class

I guess my struggle, is that I’ve been away from my family for 5 years. i was very motivated to go to school, impress my family and most importantly is to benefit my self.

but now its becoming hard.. i mean.. since high school i went to class, worked.

i use to play soccer. it was some thing i did to let out some steam and stress

are you in college right now and do you still play soccer if you dont mind me asking

yes i do.. i go to George Mason university and i played for the team my freshmen year.. i dont any more..

i have never heard of that lol ….. was it hard for you to adjust from high school life to college life

I mean I still play for fun but i stopped playing professionally…. umm.. high school was not as money demanding as college… so i worked less when i was in high school.. and George Mason is near D.C. ..or George town universty.

I went to UCSD, it was difficult. And I know Penn state is even more difficult.
So my point is you definitely have to study.
But if you stress it is just not gonna help.

Start with a checklist for the things that you need to finish.
Give each task a deadline. Make sure you finish it on the given dates
Slowly but surely you are going to clear out the list.

As far as dealing with stress, I would say go run. Not more than 30 min. Don’t burn yourself. But make sure you work out, do some cardio for 30 min everyday to release your stress.

Study in the library. It will help. You can concentrate better.
Study group.
Reward yourself when you finish your task.

supertitan210 wrote:
I mean I still play for fun but i stopped playing professionally…. umm.. high school was not as money demanding as college… so i worked less when i was in high school.. and George Mason is near D.C. ..or George town universty.

oh, ya my boyfriend plays soccer in college and i think thats why he does so well in school hes got his life all together…. i do not i just stress myself out way to much

creasyli wrote:
I went to UCSD, it was difficult. And I know Penn state is even more difficult.So my point is you definitely have to study.But if you stress it is just not gonna help.Start with a checklist for the things that you need to finish.Give each task a deadline. Make sure you finish it on the given datesSlowly but surely you are going to clear out the list.As far as dealing with stress, I would say go run. Not more than 30 min. Don’t burn yourself. But make sure you work out, do some cardio for 30 min everyday to release your stress.Study in the library. It will help. You can concentrate better.Study group. Reward yourself when you finish your task.

that sounds like a really good idea i think im honestly going to start doing that and i dont think anything will help my stress im just one of those always stressed kind of people

ask ur boyfriend to assist u… u’ll be fine and good luck..peace out.

thank you goodbye

Then I am gonnna suggest a website on managing time, managing stress and prioritizing task if you care to take a look.
http://www.studygs.net/stress.htm
Cheers

thank you im ganna look at it right now