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Do you have someone special in your life, who means a lot to you, do you love them ?

Be thankful that you have someone there for you, to hear and help you through the harsh times. Next time you see them, wrap your arms around them and tell them how much they mean to you as you gaze into their eyes. Random huh ? That’s the beauty of it, surprise your significant other with random acts of love, make them see your feeling for them, take ‘em out on a date like your earlier days with eachother. Swim in the beaches in the night, go to a carnival and ride that Ferris wheel and top it off with a gentle kiss, or the classic, just lay there in each others arms. Do it, just for the heck of it surprise her/him.

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mitch.420 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Thats a very selfless post, I like it :)

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I agree so nice, have you found that Dan?

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Nevermind…

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(v) 1 k 3 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

and that’s why my relationship ended, I wish I done more of the little things like when we first starting dating..But that is a beautiful post.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

This is true, also on a side note, you shouldn’t need a special day like valentine’s day or christmas to let someone know that they are special to you. Every day is actually special because there will never be another day like it, maybe similar but not the same. You should always let someone know how much you love them because everyday is specail.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Selfless ? is that like selfish? Good point Neuta, I just made this cause I noticed that after time some people get a little distant and don’t know how to be in the relationship. So I think for those people who have something good going for them this is for them, everyone has a right to be happy.

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tanya2731 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Greensboro, NC, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 hours, 56 minutes after post)

aww Dan. thats really sweet. i looove what u wrote..and i agree with u….u should tell the ppl u love, that u love them:)

Keep up the good work:)

ohh, i wrote u an email:) i sent u one of my poems..ttys bff

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Amber Soul offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 1 minute after post)

Selfless is the opposite of selfish

And all the people I care about are on here! So *hugs every single one of her friends* I love you all!

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Amber Soul offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 2 minutes after post)

*gives extra special big hugs to DAN for making a gorgeous post*

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 193 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 16 minutes after post)

This is so nice Dan, you are such a sweetie! I really hope that you find someone special soon…someone who will appreciate you and be thankful for you right back!

*joins the Amber/Dan hug group*

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Red_Sky offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 19 minutes after post)

Awww! I love little romantic bursts of affection, I’ll keep all of this in mind. Thanks for the reminder Dan!

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malori* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Amber eyes wrote:
*gives extra special big hugs to DAN for making a gorgeous post*

me too!!!

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Thanks Amber and Steff Mal *big Dan hugs back* well some people aren’t always thankful that what they have is great, that some people will never have or know the feeling, so maybe if people do this more often they will be able to bring their relationship up like the old times, with all that love and sweetness all that nice stuff haha

downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Thanks Dan, while I don’t have that special someone in my life right now, I’ll be sure to remember this hehe. Take care! *hugs*

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emma_lou_ser offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 hours, 32 minutes after post)

yay john! and will do :) actualy i do that alot…

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 hours, 51 minutes after post)

It is important that the people you care about know how much you care, thanks for the reminder.

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Crazy.Ω.Firework offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 hours, 9 minutes after post)

I love this, Dan.
I don’t have a ’significant other’ right now, but will make sure that I always let my family and friends know how much I care about them.
Good job. :)

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Nice, I need to practice not being so selfish

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 hours, 48 minutes after post)

what a great post… hugs..

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Hybrid Theory offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Wonderful post Dan. And so true. I try to do those things as much as possible. The moments when you do nothing but lie in each other’s arms are truly the greatest in any relationship. Just to be together is amazing.

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Left offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

In my family we kiss and cuddle all the the time and tell each other at least once a day that we love each other..Even my stinky 14 yr old boy….{=0)

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

This is a great post Dan. Thanks. I’ll try to remember this if I ever find love again.

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PollyinLove offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

Dan you are soooo adorable! this amkes me want to just hug you…I wish I could do that to James…I love him so much…Oh well :(

This post makes me think that you deserve a girlfriend even more! It would be amazing if you met someone here. xx

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

Hello Dan:) You have such good advice. I am going to take it this evening my friend.

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Demented offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 84 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 15 hours after post)

Kewl, let me try…

*gets slapped in the face*

Well… its worth a try.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 15 hours after post)

sans wrote:
This is a great post Dan. Thanks. I’ll try to remember this if I ever find love again.

~yells at sans~ you are loved silly bear… just because we cant put our arms around ya… doesnt mean that we dont love ya..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 17 hours after post)

hey dan :) nice post , i guess ppl often forgot how much they are lucky , often the only way to remember that is to loose there luck and stuff … i guess appreciating what you have is the best thing to do ^_^

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

sans wrote:
This is a great post Dan. Thanks. I’ll try to remember this if I ever find love again.

Same here..

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

Tzubake wrote:

sans wrote:
This is a great post Dan. Thanks. I’ll try to remember this if I ever find love again.

Same here..

Hey you 2 I may not be the relationship Guru, but I think that as long as a person is out their meeting people that one of those people could be someone very special. So be yourself be the real you, go out and be social and sometime you will be in someones thoughts and them in yours. I don’t think love is a one time thing that is only capable through 2 people but rather a connection that can be obtained through the right people.

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Bobberdee offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 days, 19 hours after post)

aww, how shweet! :P It always means so much to just take a moment in time to simply tell someone how you feel about them. And being angry or bitter with loved ones only distances you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 days, 20 hours after post)

Thats such a sweet post, well done for writing down this reminder to us all

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Morally Ambiguous JD online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 120 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week after post)

narg2 wrote:
Thats such a sweet post, well done for writing down this reminder to us all

Don’t worry i don’t need to be reminded

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

I love this post Dan TL and I just wish my boyfriend could see it right now, I’m going to take him to the Zoo this weekend and let him know that I care. Thank you

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1 year, 1 month ago (1 month after post)

that cute x

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

the tpic and comments
are Effectuated me
thanks so much to eveyonewho writting it’sso much Effectuat

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

very good. i love it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

Thanks for the encouragement… I doubt that this kind of advice could ever be over emphasized!!! Good stuff to be reminded of always!!!

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