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i don’t know what i did wrong why am i

such a wuss .my friend that i met a year ago
she is a hard deal i really have to work hard and
do the impossible to keep her happy and not piss her off
almost anything pisses her off, she told me she’d stay by my side whatever happens
i just cant see that! she treats me like im one of her possetions not
like im her friend.i love her i know deep down that she might love me
but im really tiered of being humiliated and acting like
im her servent to make her smile ! f that! my god im going mad
she told me that iv changed and whats happened to me and not
to talk to her just cuz i didnt call her when i arrived from paris
tho i called her a week ago telling her when im coming home.
and now she’s pissed i txt msged her that im sorry and she doesnt even answer.
i want her friendship. she is a good friend at times. but she’s just
driving me nuts. i made an oath to be her friend and be patient with her
temper and mood swings.but im tierd i feel like a nobody when im with her
but i love her. i know i am confusing u, but i dont want to lose her.

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Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

I kinda understand you… I really love this guy, he’s a nice person, but he hurts me (emotionally) quite often… sometimes I want to totally leave him, but other times I can’t bear to lose him…
You are a good friend to put up with your friend…
My advice is communicate a lot… let her know (privately) that she sometimes hurts you… let her know how you feel…
Nobody is perfect so she will keep hurting you, I guess. You can only hope that she will change, though slowly, but surely…
Remember, you cannot say that you love someone if you only stick around for the better… because only love can make a person stick around during bad times…
I wish you luck and stay patient with her… she’ll soon realize that you are a genuine friend that she cannot afford to lose…

I kinda understand you... I really love this guy, he's a nice person, but he hurts me (emotionally) quite often... sometimes I want to totally leave him, but other times I can't bear to lose him... You are a good friend to put up with your friend... My advice is communicate a lot... let her know (privately) that she sometimes hurts you... let her know how you feel... Nobody is perfect so she will keep hurting you, I guess. You can only hope that she will change, though slowly, but surely... Remember, you cannot say that you love someone if you only stick around for the better... because only love can make a person stick around during bad times... I wish you luck and stay patient with her... she'll soon realize that you are a genuine friend that she cannot afford to lose...

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