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tell her how you feel about the situation

hmm good question, have you spoken to her yet…how about him

and tell the guy you told her you liked him and she’s just doing this because she’s spitefull.

u are in a dificult situaltion. being betrayed by a friend over a guy.
she should have talked to u before doing what she did.im sorry u must feel awful.
she probably knew he would like u if u told him how u felt so she went up there first. i dont know i am just assuming i might be wrong.

That was so wrong. Some friend to betray your trust.Some people have their priorities all wrong … If it’s meant to be he’ll seek you out.Find a new bf. or don’t confide in her anymore.

my friend is in my class sits beside me through the roll, i cant even look at her online pictures.

she went offline, as soon as the whole thing happened.

because after that happened, i figured rejection wouldn’t be anything compared to what she did.
so i told him that i really liked him, like because i was afraid of rejection.
you know?
i have talked to him and he just was like
” i feel like such a player and a creep, i need to sort this all out”
so he said talk tomorrow bye.he said sorry, and that like yeh,
but its more my friend i am sooo confused.

[ poster here btw ]

im not trying to get back at her, i want us to be friends but its like its too hard.
and its hard because he goes to a different school.

forget it. focus on ur studies first.

Very well said.Friends will come and go. She put herself before your friendship, so you have to decide if that;s the type of friend you want. True, you should be focusing on your studies.Dwelling on what has happened will not be a benefit to you..Good luck :)

thank you all,= so much
it has made me feel better about this whole situation and i think i can sort it out.
you know you just need a little help sometimes (;
so thank you all.

ur always welcome =)
we are all here to help! =P

Anytime.

Well you SHOULD talk to this boy, as frightening as it may seem, I promise it’s completely painless and FUN! Also talk to your friend about this situation.

tell her how you feel which should be “best friends dont do that and how can i ever look at you the same?”

wow what a ***** seriously. a friend knows not to go there. but seriously friends last longer than boyfriends so try to patch things up with ur friend. tell her how u feel

oh come on..people have worser problems then this…be mature!!!!