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This sounds so stupid and cliche…

but im still in love with the same person that i have been for well over a year. we are best friends and once some thing happened between us under the influence of alchol. but that isnt want started these feeling. I love him so much but he says that we will only ever be friends. this upsets me cuz i love him i really do, and now he might be seeing this other girl. its not like he is beating the rest off with a stick, in fact its the opposite. i just dont know wot to do any more i feel so low about this

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This sounds so stuip and cliche…
but im still in love with the same person that i have been for well over a year. we are best friends and once some thing happened between us under the influence of alchol. but that isnt want started these feeling. I love him so much but he says that we will only ever be friends. this upsets me cuz i love him i really do, and now he might be seeing this other girl. its not like he is beating the rest off with a stick, in fact its the opposite. i just dont know wot to do any more i feel so low about this

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dazzle_p_ changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, Love, girl, Person, Sound, Fact, Feeling, Cliché, Stick, Influence" 1 year, 2 months ago.

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1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

this sounds like a hard situation. if he has said that then it is probably true- is it possible that he’s a bit of a player is he’s not completely committed to this girl.. maybe u should try and see less of him and more of ur other friends to take ur mind off him

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dazzle_p_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

there are a great many things i can say about this guy, but one thing for sure is that he is not a player… as i said he gets next to no intrest from other girls… and he is on eof the lovlest guys i ever met…. thats y i think so much of him…cuz it certainly aint his looks….. lets put it this way hes not wot id call ugly but he aint brad pitt either

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Jkl13_ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

For the most part if I was in a situation like this I would give it a bit more time just to see if the other person changes there mind or there is some sort of change in the relationship

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 4 weeks after post)

love hurts

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