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Hot boy broke my 52 day sobriety.

Gulp. I was doing really well, I wasn’t smoking, drinking, doing any drugs AT ALL… I was even eating better! And then this very VERY attractive male comes over one night while I’m house-sitting to watch some TV and keep me from getting murdered by a serial killer. And he brings a bottle of wine. How could I say no??

Anyway, I’m wondering if you all think it’s ok for me to have a couple glasses of wine or one beer every now and again. I’m struggling with this cold-turkey thing. While its improved my health immensely, it has really limited my social-life.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

It IS a matter of self-control.
As long as you don’t get DRUNK*, yes, its fine.

*You don’t remember what happened.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 minutes after post)

You have a choice my choice is I don’t use no matter what because when I do its one is two many and a thousand never enough as I end up sick all over my self as you and I know thats not the way to live It’s alright that you relapse its not alright to be hanging out with old places and play grounds and play things addition is a disease as you can die from it as I would rather die with the disease addition than die from it so stay clean no matter what what ever it takes I don’t care if you *** falls off please don’t use I know what you are feeling as it will pass you have to remember we only have a daily reprieve from the disease just for today don’t get high alcohol is a drug too!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

B.S……sorry , if you have a problem , you can’t pick up …..ever !!!! Take it from someone whose been where you are . You can still hang out with a hot guy but you can’t pick up .I don’t mean to sound like an A hole ,but I know what addiction can take from you , and you don’t want that to happen to you !…………..I wish you all the luck in the world , you must remember you can only quit if you really, really want to.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (27 minutes after post)

It’s not easy , it took me 20 years to get 3 straight years sober , so I really know what I’m talking about ………………..GOD help you in your struggle .

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (28 minutes after post)

It will be alright keep the faith if you what to use that your business if you what to stay clean its my business Hey I will give you so hope my clean date is 4/14/85 and I am so proud of that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

you cant really be half an addict, can you.

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