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My boyfriend is an Ex gang memeber we moved way from

the bigger citys to keep him away from it and to keep them away from us but some how they found out where we moved to and we need to move befor they find out where we live but we can’t afford to just pack our stuff and leave but some one told me that the police might help relocate us. does any one know if this is true?

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My boyfriends is an Ex gang memeber we moved way from the bigger citys to keep him away from it and to keep them away from us but some how they found out where we moved to and we need to move befor they find out where we live but we can’t afford to just pack our stuff and leave but some one told me that the police might help relocate us. does any one know if this is true?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Police don’t help Criminals,Gangsters should just be shot make the world a better place, my suggestion get a better bf

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

wow your an ******* and he’s an EX gang memeber as in not in it any more

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

certainly, if you are afraid, I would go to the police. Why take chances?

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1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

okay thank you

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Unless he’s in the Witness Protection Program administered by the federal government, the police will nod sympathetically and then look up your friend on their crime computer to see if there’s any outstanding warrants on him. They won’t help. Your friend just needs to keep a low profile.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

no he’s not in trouble with the police he’s been staying out of trouble and we are in a super small town out in the cuts and its relivently easy to find some one there we seen a few of them in the store and thats what started this

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (49 minutes after post)

what do you mean move country? like move to a diffrent one? we will do anything it takes for them not to find us

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (49 minutes after post)

If you are in danger, go to the police. Why would you take chances?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (51 minutes after post)

THANK YOU!

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lissete_0 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Unfortunatly ther eare gangs everywhere you go you will come face to your fear one day so why not face i6t now police become more radical every second of the day just be real careful the gangs aint no joke like they say dont try messing with fire it will burn you like hell but you can try the police just try not giving out to much info take steps

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (57 minutes after post)

the local ones im not worrie bout they keep to them self we keep to our self but the ones look’n for him are his ex homeboys.but thank you will keep all that in mind

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PomPom offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

cant you jump borders or something is what i meant

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SweetLips~ offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

PomPom wrote:
cant you jump borders or something is what i meant

She said they didnt have the money to just keep packing up and moving.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

Can you get help from family? You need to do something…if you don’t feel comfortable going to the police, what about your church? I know they would have resources to help you. I am not in your situation and I know that I can’t really comprehend what you are going through. But you need some help from someone. The fact that you are reaching out is really good, is your boyfriend helping too? Is he looking for a way to solve this? Just don’t wait for something bad to happen.

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PomPom offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

SweetLips~ wrote:

PomPom wrote:
cant you jump borders or something is what i meant
She said they didnt have the money to just keep packing up and moving.

so if they go far enough away the once, it will save them money in the long run

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1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

my family will not help me iv ask we have talk about going to other countries but that does cost alot of money and that we just don’t have i have thought about asking for help from the church but its a small town i don’t think they could help much.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

I wish I had some other suggestions. I wish you the best of luck and I really mean that. I’ve exhausted my list of people who might be able to help. Your family, The church, The police…..what about his family?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 52 minutes after post)

his family doesn’t approve of me so they cut him out

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1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 53 minutes after post)

thank you so much though all your seggetion really have helped it gives me a few other ideas just in case one doesn’t work

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