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This May Seem Like A Stupid Problem But…

At School I Hang Around With A Group Of Friends Of About 8 People,, But I Have Other Friends Out Of My Smaller Group. But The Problem Is The Two Groups HATE Each Other,, So When I Hang Out With Either One The Other Group Gets Either Sad Or Angry :(

What Should I Do ??
Thanks For Caring
Jess x

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

hmmm… i dislike your use of capitals at the beginning of every word..but anyway, why does it matter if they get mad?? do they like make fun of you or something when you do?? why do the groups hate each other??

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Anonymous1011 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (59 minutes after post)

no problem is stupid..

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wordfarer offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Do you spend more time with the Montagues or the Capulets?

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dotspot offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Try to unite the groups.

You can do it person by person.

Take one person from group A and one from B, and hang out, just the three of you. By making one pair friends, you’ll have 3 people bridging the groups instead of one.

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Anonymous1011 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

dotspot wrote:
Try to unite the groups.

You can do it person by person.

Take one person from group A and one from B, and hang out, just the three of you. By making one pair friends, you’ll have 3 people bridging the groups instead of one.

do that. thats good advice.

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Luck of the Irish offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

dotspot wrote:
Try to unite the groups.

You can do it person by person.

Take one person from group A and one from B, and hang out, just the three of you. By making one pair friends, you’ll have 3 people bridging the groups instead of one.

Excellent advice, kudos

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hyenadan85 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 hours, 34 minutes after post)

tell both of them that i have friends that some people dont like, its life deal with it!!!! cause everyone has this problem sort of, atleast theres one kid you like that another friend of your friend doesnt like. they have to deal with it

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DocT offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 20 hours after post)

Why do we have to have all our “friends” liking each other? I do like my eclectic group of friends. They do not all like each other. The do how ever treat me honestly (even if i do not like the advice etc..), in the end it is our choice of what we will put up with in our own lives..

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