Copycat that’s what you are .Because she is does not make you one …
It’s definitely an awkward situation but honesty’s generally the best policy where friends are concerned. Just be honest with her.
slimline2 wrote:
Copycat that’s what you are .Because she is does not make you one …
im not a copycat!
I never though I was…I was always kinda attracted to her…i liked her…but it hought it was really all a friend thing…but when she told me she was bi and told me all her exspierences her dreams ect they were simillar… i dont wanna be a copycat…but i like her…more then a friend…and i think i always have it just only now became clear…
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ask her “what if I told you I was bi”?
say nothing after the question and see if she picks up the lead.
why not try a Boy first and then you know for sure….
Crazy_In_Love987 wrote:
slimline2 wrote:
Copycat that’s what you are .Because she is does not make you one …
im not a copycat!
I never though I was…I was always kinda attracted to her…i liked her…but it hought it was really all a friend thing…but when she told me she was bi and told me all her exspierences her dreams ect they were simillar… i dont wanna be a copycat…but i like her…more then a friend…and i think i always have it just only now became clear…
Sometimes that’s exactly how these things work - your feelings for someone can change when you think there’s a chance they might be interested. That’s not being a copycat, it’s being unable to control your feelings, which is only human. Like I said, just come clean with her. She’s already said she doesn’t fancy any of her friends, so let her know you’re not trying to put any pressure on her and you just want her to know.
slimline2 wrote:
why not try a Boy first and then you know for sure….
I have had a boyfriend…and i loved it…he was awsome…and i mean WAS!
spiratec9 wrote:
show her this post ?
thats an idea…but…i dont know im nervous as hell! i dont wanna loose with her what i had and if she dosent like me the same then…i dont know what im gonna do…shes my best friend…and if i loose her i might as well just die…shes my life..that sounds so wierd…idk…
Dorian Valentine wrote:
Crazy_In_Love987 wrote:
slimline2 wrote:
Copycat that’s what you are .Because she is does not make you one …
im not a copycat!I never though I was…I was always kinda attracted to her…i liked her…but it hought it was really all a friend thing…but when she told me she was bi and told me all her exspierences her dreams ect they were simillar… i dont wanna be a copycat…but i like her…more then a friend…and i think i always have it just only now became clear…
Sometimes that’s exactly how these things work - your feelings for someone can change when you think there’s a chance they might be interested. That’s not being a copycat, it’s being unable to control your feelings, which is only human. Like I said, just come clean with her. She’s already said she doesn’t fancy any of her friends, so let her know you’re not trying to put any pressure on her and you just want her to know.
that dosent really scare me…except i dont want her to start a fight about it…if so…then she may never trust me again..and she wont give in either…ill have to ***** i lied and go back in my shell and then itll start another fight because i “lied” but then itll calm down… dont want that to happen…
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Why would she start a fight about it?
because she is like that…
another friend of mine copys EVERYTHING she does
and if she thinks im copying her then she’ll start to fight about it.
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spiratec9 wrote:
ask her “what if I told you I was bi”?
say nothing after the question and see if she picks up the lead.
if you say
“what if I told you I was bi”?
she will say “are you bi?”
then you say “would that make any difference?”
then she says yes or no and she’ll know…im terrified of her answer…i dont wanna loose her.
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then you say “just asking”………….silence.
…i dont like this…i dont know..
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I think ill forget it all together…sounds easyer
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I think if she is really your best friend she would stand by you even if you said you robbed a bank.
And so she should.
I stand by you and I don’t even know you.
Crazy_In_Love987 wrote:
I think ill forget it all together…sounds easyer
ah,take a chance.she will probably say she dosn’t like you in that way.
It’s worth taking a shot - she’s not gonna get annoyed at you for copying her unless this is something you’ve done a lot in the past
spiratec9 wrote:
Crazy_In_Love987 wrote:
I think ill forget it all together…sounds easyer
ah,take a chance.she will probably say she dosn’t like you in that way.
all the more reason to never tell her…ill stay inside my shell…let her figure herself out..then ill tell her if i feel the same way…thanks…but ill stay bi inside and straight to everyon else.
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