life help: i am 25 and my mom wants nothing to do with me.what ever i do

kaceywolf

i am 25 and my mom wants nothing to do with me.what

ever i do i can not please her in any way.she always put me down.i want so bad to have a mom in my life when i need her the most.what should i do?should i let her go and deak with pain and try hard to move on?

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Diesel1 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years ago (24 minutes after post)

Are you sure she wants nothing to do with you? If you love her then you have to try being the stronger one here. I know it sucks but it sounds like something is bothering your mom. What is your mom’s situation that you think would lead her to treat you this way?

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3 years ago (5 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Did your mother say she wanted nothing to do with you? Mothers always want the best for their children no matter what their age. You need to talk to your mother as an adult and tell her what she is doing and how it makes you feel no one should be put down by their parent words do hurt and you need to tell her that. Good Luck!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 3 years ago (16 hours, 11 minutes after post)

i’ve been there! my mom and older sister get along like two peas in a pod, and me, well i’m like the mud!!!
for years i wanted a relationship with my mom, for her to accept me for me, to like me, to get along with me. . . . .
Then one day, i was talking to my favorite Aunt Sheila in Atlanta, and i was explaining another eposode with my mother, and my aunt said something that i will never forget to this day, that has for the last five years helped me to just continue to be the positive - loving -kindhearted person i stil an to this day. Aunt Sheila said Quote “you know (name) you may never get approval or have a relationship with your mom, just live your life”

Hearing my aunt say that, and pondering over those words helped me to continue being me, and not caring about if my mom liked me, was close to me etc. and you know, since then, we have become a littl closer, but she’s still pretty much the same . . . But i really don’t care. not to be mean or hateful or state that i don’t love my mom, because oh let me tell you i do. just because she’s your mom doesn’t mean your going to get along or even like one another for that matter.

I heard my mom tell a family memeber years ago that she loved me but she didn’t like me. ooohhh the pain!!!!

and when i was real little i over heard her say that she never wanted to have a child of my complextion ( my brother and sister arne’t my color)

what im trying to say is, you will exhuast yourself trying to get your moms approval, if that what you want, being tired you go right ahead, i’ve been able to live with the fact that my mother doesn’t even like me for 34 years . . . doesn’t mean she doesn’t love me, she just don’t like me.

i am so much happier with ME! i will always be there for my mom, if she ever needs me, but over the years i have told her in so many words that she doesn’t have to like or accept or even love me if she chooses, i love me, i accept me, i am ,me.

don’t tire yourself out.

don’t worry
be you, and she how much more you will prosper but not worrying about her thoughts.

c ya

love

yourslef okay?

i've been there!  my mom and older sister get along like two peas in a pod, and me, well i'm like the mud!!!
for years i wanted a relationship with my mom, for her to accept me for me, to like me, to get along with me. . . . . 
Then one day, i was talking to my favorite Aunt Sheila in Atlanta, and i was explaining another eposode with my mother, and my aunt said something that i will never forget to this day, that has for the last five years helped me to just continue to be the positive - loving -kindhearted person i stil an to this day.  Aunt Sheila said Quote "you know (name) you may never get approval or have a relationship with your mom, just live your life"

Hearing my aunt say that, and pondering over those words helped me to continue being me, and not caring about if my mom liked me, was close to me etc.  and you know, since then, we have become a littl closer, but she's still pretty much the same . . .  But i really don't care.  not to be mean or hateful or state that i don't love my mom, because oh let me tell you i do. just because she's your mom doesn't mean your going to get along or even like one another for that matter.

I heard my mom tell a family memeber years ago that she loved me but she didn't like me.  ooohhh the pain!!!!

and when i was real little i over heard her say that she never wanted to have a child of my complextion ( my brother and sister arne't my color)

what im trying to say is, you will exhuast yourself trying to get your moms approval, if that what you want, being tired you go right ahead, i've been able to live with the fact that my mother doesn't even like me for 34 years    . . .  doesn't mean she doesn't love me, she just don't like me.

i am so much happier with ME! i will always be there for my mom, if she ever needs me, but over the years i have told her in so many words that she doesn't have to like or accept or even love me if she chooses, i love me, i accept me, i am ,me.

don't tire yourself out.

don't worry
be you, and she how much more you will prosper but not worrying about her thoughts.

c ya

love

yourslef okay?

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kaceywolf #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

I am 25 also, and I got a mom I don’t really care for! She won’t listen to me like I do to her, and she doesn’t ever hear what I’m saying or pretend to care, she has no problem saying I’m busy, and have to go when I want to talk about I mean anything, however when she wants to talk, silly me will listen, well I’m sick of it, and I’m sick of always doing what she wants to do, and well today I’m just sick of the fact that she is and will never be the mother I think a mother should be, or anything remotely close to it, she puts me down, in her own little way all the time, and I still hang out with her, when it’s always all about her, I wish I could move away, and change my phone number! I have a son now, and my fear is that I will ever do anything the same as her, but I can’t imagine being like that, cause I mean I have this thing called commen since, and it’s not that hard to be a good mom! Anyways refering back to the original post I say move on, as I wish I could learn to do it myself!

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