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im sick of my sister stealing all my friends

everytime i have friends over she always makes me hang round with her and i dont want to and when i tell her to go away my parents yell at me im sick of all my friends liking her more than me, why do my friends always ditch me for her
my best friend moved to Queensland and she is down for a holiday at the moment and she would prefer to be with my sister than me im sick of this!

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

is your sister older or younger?

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roxychick34 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

younger

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

have you ever asked them why?

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roxychick34 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

no, but ive asked my sister why and shes always like im not stealing your friends =[

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Well do all of you hang out together, or just with your sister?

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roxychick34 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i hang out with my friends then my sister joins then they leave me for her

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

why don’t you just go along? They aren’t telling you they don’t want your company are they?

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roxychick34 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

no but they act as if they dont
and if they wanted me to hang round with them
wouldnt they come and get me and ask why i wasnt there
they just dont care

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Not necessarily,They probably like you both. Kinda hard to pick one sis over the other in the same house.If I were you I’d try not to take it too personally. As long as your being accepted and no one is mean spirited about anything, can’t see why you all can’t try to get along.There’s always enough friends to go around :)

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roxychick34 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

right now i have 3 of my best friends here and they really dont care im gone one of them came out before to see me but she ditched me again to go back to my sister none of them want me anymore and one of them i havent seen in 9 months and i dont even no if she likes me any more

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

The only way your going to know, is to ask them when your sis isn’t around. Maybe they have somthing more in common with your sis? Spread yourself around and meet new ones as well. You can never have enough friends. Agree?

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JamJars offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (34 minutes after post)

maybe they are still your friends

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laxrox offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

i have the same problem except my sis is older than me
i had a sleepover in 5th grade and i had 4 out of 5 friends leave to go to the room she was in just to watch her play on the computer then when she had a sleepover i went and hung out with her friends to show her how i felt and she said to them”guys if you wanna stay with her you can but im going to be over there”so i could tell she was upset and i thought she wouldnt do it agian but i was playing outside with my friends and she comes out everytime were out there and just starts playing and everyone gradually goes over there and its really annoying
ive brought it up with her and them sepretly and my sister said that their her friends too and my friends said they didnt even relise they were doing it so agian i thought it would stop but it didnt so now her and this guy ive known for 3 years are best friends and he likes her

my advise is to kep your friends and your sister close but also met friends that dont know your sister and keep them away from her cuz sisters are stupid b*i*chs lol jk

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workingandstrivin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

my sis is doing it right now and i dont know what to do i wanna kill her
she also gets away with it cause she is our cuz too

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ann12 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

i no how u feel my sis is a *****
she has stolen all my frieds
This is because she is sad and has no friend of her own so she decided she might borrow my friend
i hate
her

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