maybe you should go stay with a friend who will stop you from drinking and for some help. You made the right choice telling us about it though. I would go stay with friends or family who can help you out though
I have no one. no family. my friends are all busy with thier own lives
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oh…go somewhere you like to go, and get your mind off of everything
I just dont know what to do anymroe. I have no money, I cant buy groceries, I cant do anything, I am just a failure. no wonder I am alone. sorry, i realize I just sound contrary and sulky. you dont need to respond.
no no you dont sound like that!! You’re having a rough time! You have a right to be like that!
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everyone is busy for the weekend, there is noone to call. I would smoke pot if I could but I cant afford it. the alcohol was already here. I have to meet with a psychiatrist in a week. I just think its a waste of time. how can just talking about something change anything. sorry, normally i am not like this, I always try and look at the bright side, but just lately, I dont know, I just cant do it anymore. I just dont see the point. where is any of this going
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I am a student, and it is offered through the university if your doctor reccomends it. it doesnt cost anything. \i am just scared to get my hopes up. how can just talking change anything. I really really want it to, I just cant understand how
I can’t change how you are feeling with any magic words. Depression is a serious foe. It always seems to have the upper hand.
But you can get help! Reaching out here was a good move just interacting might help a little. Keep fighting. Go to see the psychchaitrist.
Talking may not change the facts of your situation but it might change the perspective that you presently have on it.
Good Luck
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I had to talk to a psyc when I was in the hospital on wed before they would let me go home. it just seemed awkard more then anything. but maybe I will see this person more then just once and that will help
Hi itisme. It is very easy in our lives to loose perspective and even easier to spiral into a dangerous downward depression. One big knock can kick us over and sometimes it’s very difficult to get back up. But I’m here to tell you it’s not impossible. I’m happy you will be seeing a psychiatrist… it can be very helpful.
I would like to offer you a free copy of my book, “Can someone please tell me why my life sucks?!” It’s a small ebook that I offer free to anyone here on help.com if they are interested. The book is designed to get you back in touch with your perspective or to start seeing things from a different perspective. Trust me I know where you are coming from. Even today I’m again coming out of a darker place, but I know where the light it… and I know how to get to it - I believe you do to!
If you are interested in my book, you can ask for it by email. My email address can be found on my website, www.greenmancoaching.com
bright blessings ~ Richard
thankyou richard. its just that I was fighting depression for awhile, and things really were getting soo much better. I thought I had finally beat it, and then my husband left, and I found out how much debt i was in with no way to get out of it. all my friends have their own stuff going on and dont need to hear me whine anymore and i just dont know. it just seems like even if things do get better, it wont be for long. all roads eventually lead back here.
I know how you feel. My life since the year 2000 has seemed that way. But trust me there is a different perspective. You yourself have felt it! I understand how you feel about your friends. I too have just lost a relationship. My partner of nearly 2 years, met a man on the internet. I basically made it possible for her to meet him face to face (he’s from out of State)… they stayed in a Motel (after I kicked them out of my home) 8 days after their first meeting, she married him. 3 days after their marriage she came and got her stuff out of my home. She wasn’t even moved out before she married a man. Gotta tell you… this blew me away. That all happened last month. I’ve been to the therapist … I’ve joined CoDA… I’m taking whatever steps I need to be able to get back to the person I AM… The light IS there, and WE can be the master of it. And I’m gonna be the 6 million dollar man…because we have the technology to rebuild me… and I’ll be better and stronger than before! Email me… let’s talk.
what is coda?
I just hate this, I dont want to be around people because I know they will just get mad at me for bringing them down, but then they just get mad at me for declining dinner invitation, there is no winning. no matter what I do everyone hates me.
my fried invited me to dinner, I said no becaue I didnt want her to know I was drunk, now she is mad. ****.
CoDA is Codependents Anonymous. The world is full of codependents in denial… this site is full of ‘em.
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hey, I am just filling everyone in, I ended up getting really drunk and then taking a bunch of pills, I ended up in the hospital and they put me in the psych ward, I am on a weekend pass right now, but I have to go back. hopefully thing will help
itisme wrote:
hey, I am just filling everyone in, I ended up getting really drunk and then taking a bunch of pills, I ended up in the hospital and they put me in the psych ward, I am on a weekend pass right now, but I have to go back. hopefully thing will help
hope you get better. I’ll be praying for you
Kanabi
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Richard Cor de Lyon