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JSchaefer

Is there anyway you can tell if they guy you might like is gay?

BESIDES asking him straight up?

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dontreallykno #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

I would like to know that MYSELF! Good Question…

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gon #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Would it make you feel better about the fact that he doesn’t like you, if he’s gay?

Whether he’s gay or straight, all that really matters is whether he’s responding to you the way you’d want/expect from someone you were going to invest your time and effort in. If he isn’t, … next!

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dontreallykno #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

can u tell by how someone dresses?

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

gon wrote:
Would it make you feel better about the fact that he doesn’t like you, if he’s gay?

Whether he’s gay or straight, all that really matters is whether he’s responding to you the way you’d want/expect from someone you were going to invest your time and effort in. If he isn’t, … next!

well i really like him alot. and I would just like to know. I dont fit any strereo types. So you know He might not either…

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

haha, no there really isnt J. I liked this guy once, and i tried to get my friend to find out if he was gay. He told her he was bi because she told him she thinks bi guys are hot. He was really straight though. That was terrible. But if you tell him you’re gay, he’ll be likely to tell you if he is.

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

AH no not really because gay people are just people no different than me or you. If you like him great either you like a nice guy or a new gay friend

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

what

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

yea im right

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

TheJDevil wrote:
haha, no there really isnt J. I liked this guy once, and i tried to get my friend to find out if he was gay. He told her he was bi because she told him she thinks bi guys are hot. He was really straight though. That was terrible. But if you tell him you’re gay, he’ll be likely to tell you if he is.

Im just really nervous to tell him. Idk even know how i would.

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

its not like they have a bumpersticker on their head that says I AM GAY

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Gir and Downman - uhmmm..you guys know JSchaefer is a dude right?

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

JSchaefer wrote:

TheJDevil wrote:
haha, no there really isnt J. I liked this guy once, and i tried to get my friend to find out if he was gay. He told her he was bi because she told him she thinks bi guys are hot. He was really straight though. That was terrible. But if you tell him you’re gay, he’ll be likely to tell you if he is.
Im just really nervous to tell him. Idk even know how i would.

i dont like telling people “I’m gay.” It makes me feel awkward. I usually come out to people by saying something like “Omg Zac Efron is my fetish.”

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

downman1 wrote:
No

AHHH he just texted me!!! =DDDDDDDDD

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

nice what he say

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

haha yeah what’d he say?

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

he asked how i was doinggg. lol.

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dontreallykno #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

is he gay or not? TELL US!

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

who me? im gay. I dont know if my crush is or not. :// I hope he is.

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

oh wow. exciting J. lol.

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

how you were doing haha sounds promicing did he text you first

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Yeah he did!! he usually doesnt text me to often.

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

haha good for you.?

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

haha i guess… idk why i get so worked up over little things that probably mean nothing.

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

haha, you remind me of myself.

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JSchaefer 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

He asked a girl out today, she said yes…
Im so bummed :(

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

Bummer dude.

plenty of fish in the sea

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TheJDevil 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

awww im sorry! =(

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