Family help: I am in a relationship where my girlfriend is going thru some rough times..ie: divorce, finicial issues, and family issues. - Help.com

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I’m saying, just be there for her, let her know you’re there, and help her out in ANy ways that you feel would help. If she gets mad at you, just let her, its not actually at you, she just needs an outlet. Let her come to you.

I agree, just be there for her, I dont know if you’ve been married yourself, but she may think if you haven’t you cant relate to her marital issues. Just be there as a shoulder for her when she needs it. She’ll get through this, and just knowing you are there will help a lot. :-)

Why does the suicide bot come up in these cases ? nobody mentioned suicide did they ??? lol

I don’t know…guess its automatic for the suicide bot to come up if there is stress involved??? No I have never been married so I guess I can’t really relate to her with that issue…I am giving her space and letter her come to me. We are going to watch the fringe/law in order tomorrow and see how it goes…all I will do is hold her and see what happens….I feel like I am on egg shells and don’t know what to say…well thank you for your comments, I do appreciate it!!