guy help: Guys and gals, when you are dating someone, what pushes you away? - Help.com

lying and cheating. though i have problems with jealousy, that’s definetly bad for a relationship

Bad breath. LOL

I agree if the guy smells, I am outta there

haha anon i agree-that’s sucha turn off

a bitchy personality.

lying and cheating i can handle the bad smell, BUT NOT THE LYING AND CHEATING as my bf did to me and as stupid as i’m i wanted him by so bad i begged him to come back to me, and i would accpet that fact that he would cheat again and again,
oh HITTING - will not allow and “man” to hit me EVER AGAIN!!

Not being honest. Also, not being able to quit and get over things once things go awry is a real turnoff.

I’m a guy. I’d say a no-no is the failure to do any of the following:

*courtesy & respect (do it for each other; ladies, you’re not princesses… do your part; consider whether you truly appreciate everything the other person does for you– if not, start doing it)

*honesty in communication (nobody can read your mind; be kind but honest; never lead anyone on; recognize your own insecurities and be sensitive to theirs… no one is perfect)

*contributions (effort, money, conversation, help doing anything… it has to be a two-way street to be a partnership, don’t sit on your *** and expect to be served, entertained, flattered, catered to whether you are male or female)

*support (consider how you can help the other person be more of what they want to be, be where they want to be, do what they want to do… actualize themselves and reach their dreams; don’t be selfish; they should be doing the same for you)

*be first (don’t wait for them to do something first; model the behaviour you want in your relationship… be the first to be caring; take every opportunity to show how things should be; either they pick up on it and join or they don’t… but don’t waste time waiting or playing games to see if they like you, will hold onto you, etc.)

*be yourself (don’t pretend to be someone else, like things you don’t, etc. don’t waste your time or theirs)

when guys are clingy it pushes me away.

Clingy means: the girl and the guy are not at the same speed and it’s time for one or the other to find someone more compatible.