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I just started new meds…

I feel so messed up, any advice?
Its fluoxetine, been on it just under a week, i’m emotional, nausious, anxious… My doctor said I would react this way for the first few weeks, but its so bad! I’m paranoid and getting these mood swings… I know its just the pills, and it will pass, but does anyone have any advice on how to make me feel less on edge?

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ronin offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Any projects around the house you can work on? It doesn’t have to be huge, just something time consuming, the more you’re concentrating on that task the less you’ll focus on those feelings.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

you might feel better after a few weeks but if you dont, TELL your doctor you DO NOT want to carry on taking them
fluoextine can be really dangerous, i took it for a few months and went utterly crazy.
but give it time, cause it might work for you eventually.
in the meantime, try and keep yourself as preoccupied as possible

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Not really… I’m trying to keep busy, but it slides up on me… I’m not good at fighting thoughts like that off, and when I say emotional, i mean really emotional :S

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Definitely call your doctor. You may need a lower dosage, also.

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I’m seeing him tomorrow, I just feel like I’m slipping again and its so frightening…
I was put on the meds ‘cos i’m at a Risk Point for depression or something, I used to be depressed, but got over it recently, I guess this is some kind or potential relapse… Anyway, I’m on them, and the bad side effects are kicking in :S

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

somebody once told me that fluoxetine can give you the energy to commit suicide…
i dont know if it’s true, but dont take the risk.
if they dont work within a few weeks, come off them.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Tomorrow, make sure your doctor is really listening to what you’re saying and not just brushing aside your concerns. There are other meds in that class that might work better for you, or, as I mentioned earlier, you may need a different dosage. Also, I’m a big believer in not using JUST medication to help in situations like this. If you’re not in counseling, you might want to consider asking your doc for a referral tomorrow.

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

“somebody once told me that fluoxetine can give you the energy to commit suicide…” Yeah, I can believe that… My clouds back… I know it has to get worse before it can get better, but make me feel like this?! In the space of 6 days I have gone to generally ok, occasionally cutting, to - it would be better if i just died.
Its unbelievable, I have actually in the last half hour just crashed completly…

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iwana offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (32 minutes after post)

This is really NOT normal - it should not be affecting you to this extent. What time is it where you are? Is the day almost over? Is there someone you can call or hang with the rest of the day? What time is your appointment tomorrow?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

dont sugar coat how you feel when you see your doctor
tell him/ her exactly what your feeling
i didnt and i ended up on the highest dose, completely crazy, cutting away.. and to be honest, im still trying to get over it now
i hadnt cut for 6 months before going on fluoxetine

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Yeah, I have the means to do it, but I’m not going to do that to the people I care about…
Don’t worry about me guys, i’ll be ok… Its evening here, seeing my doctor tomorrow afternoon. And, ja, I have someone to call if I need.
Its helping coming on here actually, thanks.
I’m just trying to think of the good things, and keep talking, I’ve got sleep aids, i’ll probably take them later (responsibly!) so i can sleep through it, thats the usual plan anyway.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (42 minutes after post)

v. sensible!
hope yer ok

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Lol, sensible this time around anyway…
Jaa, thanks guys, its lifted a bit…
Talk about mood swings, huh? This morning I was fine…

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iwana offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Yeah, this would be a fine time for the pharmaceutical sleep aids. I hope you’re better very soon!

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Ja, I’m gonna wait a while though… This is what happened last time, felt terrible so thought I’d just take one… Ended up with the bottle inside me… But that was actual sleep meds, not just over the counter ones…
I’ll stay on here for a bit longer… And try not to think about how I feel

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (54 minutes after post)

Maybe go answer some more posts? You always have great responses, and it will help get your mind off things. . .

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Great responses? Thanks… I just try to be honest with them…
And you and wolverine have been very helpful on here, I don’t like bothering my friends (even if they want to be bothered) so this site is good for me, and its great to know that people like you are out there.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Sometimes a little honesty is what people need to hear . . .good luck. And I’ll be here on and off the rest of the day if you want to give me a shout.

BTW - I looked at your profile and saw you were in Scotland. I would LOVE to go there some day. And, I also love Linkin Park, but I wouldn’t recommend you listen to them right now! LOL!

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Yeah, i was just looking you up… Ja, scotlands cool :) Erm, fair point actually, LP are currently playing in the background, I should switch that off lmao!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

I went on the net to try to find a “happy music playlist,” but all the songs on the lists I found were really old. Maybe today’s bands just aren’t into happy? That’s kind of sad, you know?

Ok now I’m just pathetic - haha!

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

Lol yeah I know… Oh well, actually I’m feeling better now.. Ok, that sounds stupid, like this whole post was pointless and attention seeking, but thats what these meds have been doing to me, paranoid- normal-hyper - suicidal - normal- anxious - suicidal -normal thats what the last few days have been like, my heads just all over the place…
I was crying on Dr Awesomes shoulder a few nights ago, and he asked me just a little while ago if I was ok… I WAS, but like I said… Moodswings..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

As if dealing with the mood swings God gave us as women isn’t enough, you’re having to deal with this on top of it. But I’m glad ya’ got some good shoulders to cry on!

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Yeah, t makes a huge difference having someone to listen.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 58 minutes after post)

narg2 wrote:
Yeah, t makes a huge difference having someone to listen.

im always always ALWAYS here for you babes, god i hate it that doctors would give you meds for a problem that might appear. when the meds are supposed to be used for people who are currently suffering from that problem, you don’t need them that’s why they are affecting you so badly.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Ja, they’re making my mood really unpredicable… I’ll talk to my doctor today, and tell you guys how it goes

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iwana offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Hey there. Just checking in - did your doc listen to you?

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narg2 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

I told him they made me feel really bad, but he said stick on them for a few weeks and it would help in the long run… So I’m still on them… But I had an ok day, so I wasn’t feeling to bad when I saw him

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iwana offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

I’m glad you are feeling better - maybe this is a sign that things are turning around for you. Did he talk to you at all about your dosage, and why he chose the particular dosage/drug for you?

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1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 7 hours after post)

For the first few weeks after I start antidepressants/antianxiety meds, I react very badly too. I borrow a massive collection of movies from friends and family. When the pills start to bother me too much, I throw one in and try to forget where I am and what the medicine is doing to my head.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 14 hours after post)

Thanks, I’ll try that next time things get bad

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Eeeek I hate meds, I’m getting the nausia BAD just now :S

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

dont worry about it too much babes im here for you, and il see you tomorrow and give you a huge hug.

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