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So, ive been in a lesbian relationship for about 2 yrs, and my relationship as of right now is on a rocky road…

My girlfriend is from Kansas, where its pretty conservative. I’m from florida, where its the TOTAL opposite. Ive met her family, shes met mine, and both seem to be pretty supportive and understanding, so no issue really there, but we’ve been fighting alot about different things irritating us about our roommates (we live together) so we get stress out, and fight, there seems to be a trust issue here also, but ive never cheated, wouldnt ever think about doing so either. shes planning on moving to kansas once again for school, for about 2 years, and im willing to move with her, not just to be supportive, but because i want the change and something out of floridas hectic lifestyle. she gets upset if i dont let her go through my phone, not that i have something to hide, but sometimes a lil privacy with things are nice… maybe i am wrong, but i dont have and issue with it if its that crucial.. i dont go throught hers, because i trust her. …she doesnt think i should move to kansas because she says she has a bad feeling and thinks im going to move up there, we’re going to fight and then im gonna move back down, but i see it happening completely different. basically what im asking, and getting it. it feels like im losing her in some way, and when we fought over the fone the other day, she said she couldnt do it anymore, and it was like she was basically already gone (out of a relationship) but she wants to talk about things and what not… and i dont know what to say, expect…. what would u do or say if u guys were in my shoes? what should i say if it does bad and if goes good? i love her to death, and she tells me she loves me too… could it be shes just very upset about things and said thigs out of rage?…. help.. =(

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a_bandoned offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

the way she is acting could be a term called “projection.” or she just has trust issues even though she isn’t doing nothing wrong….or maybe she is pushing you away. you should address how you feel to her and get an answer. it isn’t fair to you to suffer and be confused. i hope it works out

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (49 minutes after post)

My roommates are/were a lesbian couple, they always fight,and one is always doing stuff like that. Its a tough situation, goodluck!

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