girl help: Do women care about statues in a male?

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Do women care about statues in a male?

Alright I like this girl. Let’s call her Ms. X.

Ms. X goes to a different school that’s right next to mine. We are in the same grade, but academically, she’s far higher then me. Intelligently, I don’t know much about her, but I would assume she’s very smart, considering the fact that she’s in IB and getting straight A’s with a 4.0 GPA.

Now -I- on the other hand, am far below standards. While intelligence wise, I’m not scared, academically, people look down on me. Due to “errors” in the past, I’m below what I -should- have been right now. I daresay I’m even smart enough to be in those high ranking classes if it wasn’t for my laziness.

If I were to ask Ms. X out, would she eventually break up BECAUSE of the gap in our academics? It’s important to note at this point that where we live, the college we students go to determine the, for a lack of better words, “honor” of the family. Right now, Ms. X can probably apply to a prestigious, high-ranking school and have a good chance of entering. I, on the other hand, have a very slim chance of entering even the state college.

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one2love 0 #
Mesa, AZ, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

well it all depends on what she believes because not to be like mean or anything but i am like Ms. X and my bf is like you(from what you say) and i fell in love with him and im not say you will fall in love with her …

spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

love cancels all other factors ,totally.

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one2love 0 #
Mesa, AZ, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

i agree with you!

spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

excellent.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

dose the poster believe us?

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

you may have trouble from her father.
Fathers always want the very best for their daughters.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

and so they should.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Wow. Sounds like a very Romeo & Juliet situation, where the Capulets are School A and the Montegues are School B. At any rate, I wouldn’t worry about it. Just ask her out. You might be pleasantly surprised that she still fancies you despite your differing GPAs. (Trust me, for most girls that doesn’t matter. It’s how a guy acts toward her that counts.)

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1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
love cancels all other factors ,totally.

Thats true, but if they barely know each other, then she might say no if he asks her out. love won’t have time to develop in that situation.

It really depends on the girl. She might not want to go out with someone who has a low academic standing. But you’ll never know unless you try!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 days, 3 hours after post)

To be frank with you anyone who puts academia and a point system above actual intelligence doesn’t deserve the fruits of happiness with you. Academic standing and emotions do not coincide whatsoever, so if by chance she does happen to end the “relationship” because of it then well you’re better off without her. Intelligence isn’t measure by a letter or by a point system. Theres book smart and theres genious.

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