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Chelsea Miranda
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Cleburne, TX, US

My life has changed so much and im terribly scared.

I just found out that i have an std and my ex bf gave it to me. i just dont know what to do and scared that it can affect my diabetes in some way.

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YouBloodySuc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

D: wow thats terrible…does he aknowledge the fact that he gave it to you and understand the problems that he has just brought unto you? I hope he is willing to stick with you after what has happened. There are ways to treat this and no one is better to tell you than a doctor. Please seek one immediately before it gets worse. :( if its that bad just remember to send all the hospital bills to him :)

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highfrye420 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Yes see a doctor and find out if he new he had this std before you were with him, because if so he will have to pay for the bills and could possibly end up in jail for it, if your looking to get back at him. But most stds can get takin care of. I wish you the best of luck with that.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Chelsea, I am so sorry! I don’t know what to say. Just give it time. And…it’s not a death sentence? There are those who have it worse? O, you’ll learn to accept it better over time…i’m so sorry.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Chelsea! so good to see you back, but that is such a horrible news! :(

as others said, go to the doctor.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (20 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Oh this blows for sure. Agree with others to see a doctor about this. It’s too great of an issue not to. But don’t worry about it too. We always learn something from stuff like this in our lives.

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Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

thanks everybody for the help. I really appreciate it. Since then, it has really hurt my body because of my diabetes. I have not been able to get in touch with my ex to see if he knew, but i did find out he cheated on me and is now having a baby with that grl. so im quite stunned and hurt. Im trying to deal with this the best i can, but i keep having to go into the ICU and the doctors are trying to penatrate the infecction. Its making my bloodsugars run dangerously high. It got to 1124 the other weekend. SO im having a hard time dealing but im trying and praying to God as well. Thanks everyone i really appreciate everything. I just never thought this would happen to me, i was always so careful til he cheated. And I got the raw end of the deal…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

I’m sorry to hear he cheated. It is not your fault. Don’t worry, he’ll pay for it. Look at what happened to him now.
Take care.

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Chelsea Miranda offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Cleburne, TX, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Ues i agree with you lilies. He is certainly paying for it, and can never be able to really get to know me, so i guess it was his sorry luck in the end?

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