How do you find out if someone really died or not?
? My friend, who has been known to be a pathological liar, called me a few minutes ago and told me her mother killed herself last night. my friend moved to Chicago like 2 years ago, so shes not here to see it, but her brother called and told her and then she said she talked to her aunt as well… I dont know who else to get in touch with, she said it happened last night. I dont know her aunts or brothers phone number, so I dont know what to do? She said her mom called her counselor and told her she was gonna do it and then apparently the counselor called the police and they found her last night. I don’t know if its true or not and i dont know how to find out.. please help?
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Can you contact the Chicago police department and ask them if they can disclose any information about a deceased person? I don’t think it is illegal to ask. Otherwise you might just have to wait until the obituary is released and then search online through the Chicago obituaries. I could understand that option might not be ideal because it seems like you might just go there to attend the funeral if it is true.
yeah, newspaper from her town.
Myklns right, I had a friend known for lying, so bad she told me a school friend had died - murdered in fact - I saw the ‘murdered’ school friend down the street 12 months later! funny how it was sooo tragic what had happened! Among the trouble she caused with her lies I had to leave her for good, that was just 6 months ago, I miss her but I refuse to return till shes sought help.
But for now u are needing to know that her mother is ok, try asking when and where the funeral is, if she makes up an excuse y u cant attend I wouldnt lose any more sleep over it
I don’t understand how this directly effects you.
Why do you need to know?
If her mom died, thats tragic.
Supposedly it just happened last night, and it was in my town, but my friend moved to Chicago and she wasnt here when it happened. Her brother called her, who still lives here and told my friend.. but it doesnt make sence. She said her mom was at the coroners trying to identify the body or whatever, but they knew it was her so i dont get why they would need to do that? I am just really confused and none of it makes sence. It just happened last night so I dont know if it would be in the paper or news yet… im just really confused..
I would just let it go. Unless she’s asking you to do something.
If no one was there at the time of death, they would most likely need someone to identify and claim the body, then it’s transported to a funeral home.
Well, she’s not a horrible liar. They do have to identify bodies… but that’s besides the point. Call the police station (NOT 911- just look in the phone book for the number) and ask if she died. If, tragically, she did, they’ll won’t tell you details, but they will tell you that. If she didn’t, then they’ll tell you that.
Okay, hope this helps. Keep us posted, please.
I called my mom and told her what she said. My mom called the local police department and they said they cant give her details, but it IS true, and “it was a mess” is what she said to my mom. I was best friends with this girl since I was 10, we grew apart over the past 14 years, but I knew her mother. I used to stay at their house all the time. I’ve known this family for more than half of my life… this DOES effect me. Apparently some people don’t care about their friends parents… Thanks for your help…
Oh, I’m so sorry for your loss.
The way you poised your question/story, made it sound like you really just wanted to catch your friend as a pathological liar and expose her as such, like this was some cry for help or attention—not about a preexisting relationship with her mother/family.
You hadn’t clarified your position or relation so really there isn’t much assistance anyone here can give you—other than the obvious, to which you had your mother call to find out details from the local department.
So maybe you should be reaching out to your estranged friend—
I understand what your going through, like i said in my earlier post i had trouble too with my friend, but im still friends with her mother and extended family, if something happened to them after knowing them half my life I would want the opportunity to mourn a good friend (just cause shes my friends mother doesnt meanmean I cant be friends with her too)and to pay my respects
I see how this effects you. Keep doing what you need to, to find closure, like most would want
Hi, does anyone know if Edgar Cabrera born 07/15/1977 has died and when
I Have been looking for this person for over 6 years now and it all leaves me to a dead end. I hired a private detective and came up with nothing, can anyon ehelp me in finding him.
well a year ago my mother died from cancer so i went looking for my real father and found my half brother and had told him the news about my mother passing , then after 3 or 4 emails after asking me how i knew my father he told me he lost he fight with cancer 2 yrs ago i couldn’t beleave it so i looked it up on jsonline local paper and there nothing . my brother works in law inforement so i had him run his mane and foud that he is very much alive. what a baster to lie and use what my mother dide from just so i wouldn’t keep looking for him.i hope everyone finds what they are looking for .
I need some advice. My ex girlfriend told me her mother passed away after being in the hospital for awhile. I can’t figure out how to confirm it. I wonder if she told me that, Just to get me down to see her. I know that is a “sick” thing to think she would do. But I wouldn’t put it past her. I need help to verify this.
if i sent you a copy of a dealth certificate could you tell me if it is legit or fraud
my husband is out of the country and two people said he died and sent me two different death certifictes
how do i know if either is real or if my husband died at all
i have not heard from him and so dont even know if he is dead or if either one of the death cerificates are true
how do i get find out if he is really dead with the proper information
i have a stepson,lives in seden when his father died i saw him once i heard that he died could you help me
his name is jason earl prescod his fathers name was earlprescod
I feel sick
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