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How can you inform U.S.

air force if you know an airman is committing adultery?

reason I am asking this Q: well, I am separated and now struggling with my daughter in Missouri. I moved here from New York for him. We were in love and decided to get married after I get my divorce. But 2 months later i moved here, he left me in the middle of no where. I dont know this place, no transportation, I donno people over here, i spend 2 days in hospital because of i am suffering mentally now. Its all because of him. Now may be you know why I am asking for help.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 hours, 12 minutes after post)

just learn and live, sweety. i hate people that just play with your heart like it doesnt mean anything, but the best thing you can do for you and your daughter is forgive and forget this ba$tard, and move on. i know its hard as hell, but revenge will only hurt you in the end. i am sorry that this happened to you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (12 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Did he actually marry you and is he actually committing adultery? If so then you should contact his commanding officer or the head office of the base where he is stationed.

If you never got married; then he has not done anything wrong by way of the air force. But it may still help to contact his command chain; they may be able to help you by pressuring him into helping you out if they believe your story and that he is in someway culpable for your current situation.

If you are married but he has not committed adultery; then it would be wrong of you to accuse him of such. But it may still help to contact this command chain; they may be able to help the both of you out by pressuring him into seeking marriage counseling with you.

In any cause, you should be seeking this action to help your self out, not to punish him. If its just to punish him its not worth it, just move on.

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