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me and my gf broke up about 2 months ago.

we only broke up cuz her dad found out we were goin out. im 18 and shes 15. we went out for 7 months before we broke up. i started goin out with her when i was 17. i dont wanna hear find someone your own age and that b.s.

she really pissed me off when she started goin out with someone who is 19. i hate that, and i dont wanna be with her ever again, but today, i really missed her. i want to be with her, but i dont. maybe i just wanna be in a relationship. but some part of me still loves her, but yet i hate what she did to me, by goin out with someone older than me, when she knows she isnt suppose to be goin out with someone that much older than her.

i guess what im tryin to get across is, do i wanna be with her, or do i wanna just be in a relationship and be happy.

idk why, but i still love her, but i dont wanna be with her, cuz she really pissed me off.

i havent tlkd to her for about 2weeks and dont plan on tlkn to her anytime soon. and the part that sucks is that im moving to where she lives. im not gunna tlk to her or anything. im telling myself that im done with her

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

it pisses me off too, because, she said she still loved me when we broke up. i know we have to move on, but about a month after we broke up, she starts goin out with him.

what do you think i should do. should i just ignore her.

or should i still tlk to her as a friend.

i wanna hear your opinions. but mine is that i dont want anything to do with her now

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

get used to the fact that things will never be the same again….

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Move on

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

i know that and i realize that already.

should i just stay out of her life or should i be a friend to her, even though she did that to me

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i am moving on. and i was perfectly fine until today. dont get me wrong, it wasnt love all over again, it was just that i miss the little things we had together.

i am not gunna go out with her again if i have the chance

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Mmmmm…

That’s up to you to decide…

I wouldn’t, I couldn’t be able to stand that…

That has to do more with the way you’ll feel near her…

But if you stay near her, you’ll never let her go completely..

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

thats true. its gunna be hard seeing her with her bf, when i live in the small town that she does. but alot of my friends are there too, so its not like im gunna be hanging out with her. but if i do see them together and am kinda near them, im just gunna tell myself that its over and that i dont care.

i prolly wont tlk to her, i dont even think ill say hi to her. n hopefully she will see how pissed i am at her for what she did and want me back, n then find out that im not gunna be with her

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

I’d cut any relation I’ve with her…as long as I can that is….

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

thanks!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 32 minutes after post)

yeah that was low what she did to you. you have every right to be upset, but you should still say hi to her in the street, it would just be rude not to. and you will make her feel worse if you are polite because she will see what she lost. it’s totally normal to miss her, you are just going through the process of breaking up. you will eventually miss her less and less. it sounds like you were moving on in a realy good way, and you shouldn’t let your anger over what she did ruin that.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 17 minutes after post)

No problem

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

i guess i will say hi to her, but im not gunna tlk to her at all, ill make something up why i cant tlk to her. thanks hellohelloar

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