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so im not sure if i should give up or her or not

i met this girl at college about 2 weeks ago and we mess around enery now and then but its nothing serious and last saterday we took a walk at night which ended up with us laying on the ground side by side looking at the stars but then all of a sudden she really doesnt talk to me unless i talk to her first or we see each other at school. she has already told me she is not loking for a relationship. whenevert is just us two together everything is good and we flirt alot but when we are in a group it seems to settle down. i really like this girl and dont mind waitng but im not sure if i should wait or just move on since we havent done anything really since saterday.

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Joey_PR offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Do you want a relationship with her?

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Screech offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

yea but she is so confusing and i cant really read her most of the time. its like i cant tell if she is just being nice or if she is interested

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Joey_PR offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Thanks for replying.

What type of relationship do you want with her?

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Screech offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (11 minutes after post)

one that will last because she is a rare type of girl and everyuthing im looking for

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (13 minutes after post)

if she said she doesnt want a relationship then dont push it. shell run. take it slow.

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He Knows My Name offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (13 minutes after post)

don’t give up on her. go for her. but take it slow and steady. i’m sure she’ll come to you in the end.

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Screech offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (14 minutes after post)

k thanks

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Joey_PR offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (16 minutes after post)

“she has already told me she is not looking for a relationship.”

She warned you.

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chrisncai offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (33 minutes after post)

just be happy with a friendship, and if it grows on you two, then great!

hope all works out for you! :)

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Screech offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (37 minutes after post)

k yea i guess if it is meant to be it will happen

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seas light offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (8 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Have some patience! You said you just meet her 2 weeks ago.Decent girls like to play hard to get. If she is worth it then have some respect and just be there for her. Invite her to a movie or something casual. Good things come to those who wait. Good luck :)

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