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Where do you go when you feel like you have no where else to turn?

What do you do when you think about death more than you think about life? How do you look up when you feel like your always being looked down upon? What do yo do when nothing seems right? No matter what you do happiness is never more than a smile and then its gone again, lasting only for a few moments. And the rest of your life seems empty and hopeless. You have nothing to look forward to, no one to talk to. What do you do when no matter what path you take people are going to be disappointed in you. How are you supposed to know what’s right. Of course by “you” I mean me. Does it even matter anymore? I’m just another face. A face that nobody wants, but everybody wants to use for their benefit, their agenda, their goals. What about my goals? . . . I don’t have any. I just hope I’ll get run over or hit by a stray bullet. Where do you go when you feel like you have no where else to turn?

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Malori Malnourished offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 153 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

i know how you feel im up and down i usually use some dumb method of coping untill the down is over and finally gets to a less down stage…. im sorry if i cant seem to be much help but i did once see a counselor and i was medicated i know its hard to talk to someone you dont know about your feelings but if you can get over it sometimes you can form a great relationship and if meds arent the thing for you then dont look into it but if you really have nowhere else to turn a counselor may help, thats their job, to be there for you, and dont forget if you feel its not helping or youre not connecting, you can always try a different doctor or office

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 21 minutes after post)

you go home. to yourself. you look inside yourself, find what you really want, then go get it. make goals and let no one and nothing stand in your way. not others, and especially not the darkness that you have inside. right now it seems like this will go on forever but IT WON’T. it will get better! the hardest step is the first step, so get going and every day will get easier. just ignore everything but one goal- one little thing- like finish one book or make it through one day. start small, and as you begin to acomplish things you will regain confidence and strength. YOU ARE NOT JUST ANOTHER FACE! YOU ARE AMAZINGLY UNIQUE AND IMPORTANT! by going through this you will gain understanding and insight that NO ONE ELSE can. you are irreplaceable.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Help.com is good. But your family, if they aren’t psychos or complete *****, will love you when no one else will.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 29 minutes after post)

help.com,or Ben and Jerries ice cream.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Good ole reliable Ben and Jerry! Hazel, now you’ve got me craving it.

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Jesus

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jolver offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 44 minutes after post)

My heart really goes out to you. I wish I had the answer to your problem. All I can convey is I have learned that Light is more powerful than darkness. Here is a few of my personal suggstions. Of there is nothing wrong with counseling and Meds. this could be a good step in the right direction.

Try to see the positive in all things: Life, Family and Self. Drill your Soul (mind) that being negative/dark is not you. Exercise (run), sweating relieves my stress and really make me feel happy & healthy. Good eating habits (smoothies and soups) I never thought I would enjoy a good soup but as the old commercial stated “Soup Is Good Food”. Try daily vitamins and and Herbal teas (Caffiene free) like Chamomile or PassionFlower they kinda release the pressure in the head. But best of all I pray…yes pray! I know it sounds out there but check this out. I believe that there is a God and that He is like really in love with me and he wants me to talk, complain and cry out to Him. (sorry if I sound kookie) Contact me anytime you want i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

A friend,- PJ

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3 months, 1 week ago (5 days, 17 hours after post)

My church and Jesus

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

i really feel lost, i mean lost. nothing makes me content much less happy. i feel used most of the time by one of the people i love most in the world, my child. she is unhappy herself. i am trapped. how do you get untrapped?

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