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I am 27 and still single.

Is there any girl looking for a reliable boyfriend?

:)

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rochink offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

Not this way

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rochink offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

try getting out there, meet up with friends, go to the pub, join an internet dating site!

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Ankit offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

thks for the reply rochink..but i have already tried all that an nothing seem to fascinate me much.

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rochink offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

well, the help site probably won’t find you a good girlfriend, it just takes time, Get into things that interest you and keep going as you are, just be you and have fun, it’ll happen, it hasn’t yet most likely because you don’t just jump on any old easygo, appreciate yourself, have fun being single and use that time to learn who you are and you’ll find someone who fits! Don’t worry about being 27 Loads of people in their twenties havn’t met someone, I know plenty of people who are with absolute tw*ts because they don’t want to be single, whats th point! Go travelling! that’s amazing Enjoy life!and you’ll meet someone who appreciates you!

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Ankit offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

thks buddy

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

& i am right behind u, 20 & counting!
maybe it’s not the worst that can happen if you feel that you haven’t really found a clicker

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

i mean, i tried to convince myself into some mismatches & it turned out yet worse that remaining my logical sane single self

Ankit offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

lol

yep..thats my problem..:)

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

lol well i always tell myself, a problem is still better than an emergency

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Ankit offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

:)..Wish you all d best

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

ffffanx dude, same 2 u :)

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knightrid offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 hours, 50 minutes after post)

keep look . i know someone but i don’t know where u live sooo….

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Ankit offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 hours, 40 minutes after post)

:)

I am in India..

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Gossip_Girl offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 days, 4 hours after post)

1) I reckon der r many girls who’s looking for a reliable guy.
2) So you’d need to kinda say a bit more about yourself.

3) The picture is really not helping, it’s not exactly selling ur true self which is hopefully not a depressed chicken lol
4) This is not the best place to look for a girlfriend. U’d need to socialise more & get out there & meet different people, strike up a conversation & get going 4rm there

5) There r other ways - like using internet dating service or newspaper but the newspaper normally contains much older people from what iv heard, plus u miss out on the sparks and interaction wen u tlk to a person face to face. Plus ppl can lie thru ads…so best to start going out a bit more, or hanging out with the right social groups 4 u

6) Find a girl hu likes u 4 hu u r – or else it isn’t worth it

Don’t be to upset that your single, i’m sure that r plenty other people out there in the same age range that r in a similar situation. If ur looking 4 a partner, it’s time u started to ’sell’ yourself. You wanna make urself look more attractive than usual…so

- Dress up nice so that girls might stop & look.
- Scent apparently is an important factor that attracts girls - so put on a unique cologne, but not too heavy that it will put the girl off.
- Be confident

Gossip Girl XOXO

PS - I have a cousin called Ankit from Mumbai :)

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Ankit offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 days, 20 hours after post)

:)

Thank you very much for the nice reply.

I have seen other posts from you and I must say..You got lots of intelligence.

I cannot put my actual picture here as thats not a very intelligent thing to do..but I have changed my picture to something more appropriate( That chicken is really going to be depressed now lol)

I am looking for a girl who likes me for what I am , who is ready to face any bad or good that comes in the way and should be working. :)

As about myself.I am a software programmer, Average looking and likes to experiment with myself, likes to try out new things so as to maintain freshness and cracks Pjs a lot.
My hobbies include video games ,music and science fiction movies like the matrix and Irobot. In bollywood movies I find lakshya and dhoom 2 fascinating.
I belong to a middle class family. Father in govt service and mother a housewife.

I agreed that this does not happen to be the most appropriate place to look for a gf…but it always helps to share ur feelings with the world. :)

Anyway I am in a much better mental state compared to when I made this post. In fact I am beginning to accept and enjoy the way I am. :)

Thank you again to all the people who tried to help me. Wishing all people like me peace of mind.

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