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i had already told him that i might not wanna see him

when he comes, but he said “we’ll see then” & now he’s coming tomorrow & when he asked whether i still don’t wanna see him, i said that “it’s not supposed to be so but i still feel that i can’t”.. i don’t know exactly why i don’t wanna see him, and i do feel & sound stupid, weak, troubled, teenish & mannerless, what do u think i could do now?
u might wanna know that he treated me real bad & had no manners with me this past year

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knightrid offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

dump has ***

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Don’t be forced to do anything you don’t want to do. Sounds like he is not respecting your wishes.No means No, so he needs to take the hint…Tell him your not interested. he had his chance, and treated you bad. So I would be 100% done with him!!!! No friendship Nothing…..

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

thank you so much, i’ll try to believe so. i’m just having a hard time accepting that i said no

i’m also afraid that i came off like a weak sicko with no self esteem or manners & now this proves that i am self-esteem-less since that i care what he’s gonna think..

but really do u think i’m being impolite or manner-less with him?

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susant245 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

not at all

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (27 minutes after post)

u r tons of help

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susant245 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Sometimes acting that way gets the point across rather then being nice about it.

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

You have expressed you true feelings. How else is he to know. Otherwise, he may get mixed messages. Someone who was nasty to me, would’t even get that much. I’d simply be gone, and you don’t need to feel bad for speaking your feelings. He needs a lot more bluntness if he refuses to leave you alone. Don’t give in, stand your ground. You need to be positive, and not ashamed or feel bad at all.Ignore him at all costs if your truly done….

lazy offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (32 minutes after post)

susant, i can’t believe i missed that point, & seas light, u made my day, have the best day ever so far peeps, loads of luv

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Thanks for that! Nice to be appreciated. Wishing you all the best always :)

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

same to you, cheers!

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