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first of all phone him a thousand times tell him you might be pregnant itll be his BABY surprise him for all you know.if you really love hi do this if you dont know if you love him still do this if you dont love him do this

maybe if you try & relax for a start, then think calmly & logically, one step at a time, why things went the was they did & most importantly *what you really want right now*

It is early for you to know, Sometimes would take you at least three weeks to know i think. Can you try to go and see him personally?

any time hearties, but really, breathe & ask yourself what you really want before hormones can manipulate your true wishes with maternity euphoria, if you decide just in time, you just might save your life path from an unplanned, unwanted change if it tests positive, and if it tests negative, you would have asked yourself a question that can’t surprise you next time ;)

Ugh. Even if you were inlove with him you shouldn’t have done it, the man is involved with someone. Now you are getting yourself into trouble. He does not expect you to chase him because you knew that he is committed to someone else.

But what is done is done. All you could now is to wait for you to get the answer to that question.

Can you afford to take care of the baby? if you cannot, you can still ask for child support incase things are not going to work as planned.

abortion is an option, isn’t it?

dearie, he ain’t no clicker, i don’t know why you even still think of him but i just can’t help asking you to run for your life & look somewhere else, finding your match isn’t all that illogical, u need to match if you wanna be matches..

and it is SO WORTH TRAVELING TO ANOTHER COUNTRY, it’s your whole life we’re talking about here.

good luck!

lazy wrote:
abortion is an option, isn’t it?

no i hink killing babies is cruel would you like it if ur mother did it to you? no you wouldnt you wouldnt even be here jerk!

i think at the point where abortion is possible i would leave my mother a chance to live the way she needs to live until she reaches an age and a moment when she’s ready to have me and then my soul will return in her newborn years after the doctor aborted me for the first time.

I am pro choice but i don’t encourage abortion. But i want you to think if you can afford to let a child grow under your care now that you are still a student.

Parents? relatives? friends who can help you?

i mean in case you are really going to get pregnant.

abortion is perfectly moral when done early enough, i’m very firm on this point.
and please remember that it’s a young girl we’re talking to here with a whole life ahead of her.

laura sweetie, BEFORE you take pregnancy the test, decide if you want a child now or not, and THEN take the test, and no matter what the result is, go by your PRIOR decision, DO NOT LET HORMONES CONTROL YOUR LIFE DECISIONS

lauramoyla wrote:

~lilies~ wrote:
I am pro choice but i don’t encourage abortion. But i want you to think if you can afford to let a child grow under your care now that you are still a student.Parents? relatives? friends who can help you?i mean in case you are really going to get pregnant.

you think im going to be pregnant?

No. in case you will.

don’t panic now baby, life has something good for you in every step, just try to relax and think calmly, please.. all the luck in the world

as they say, he’s a chump

Could we get just a little real here? And my, oh my, oh my - why don’t people get even a tiny bit of education before they engage in behavior that might produce babies? IT IS TOO EARLY TO KNOW IF YOU ARE PREGNANT! There are only a few days mid-way between your periods when an egg can be fertilized. So you can estimate by you last period how likely that is - too close after or before a period and it’s not possible.

If the “act” took place at the optimum point of your cycle, you still cannot determine pregnancy until after you have missed at least one period. The body develops a “preganancy hormone” which becomes increasing strong as the pregnancy progresses. This hormone can be measured in the urine, beginning about 4 weeks after conception. There are many reliable home pregnancy testing kits on the market. You can find out EVERYTHING you ever wanted to know about pregnancy with a little research on-line.

Clearly, your former manager used you, but you were willing to be used. So stop all the fantasy. He does not want to hear from you. You made a mistake. Move on. Make better choices next time. Date the guy, let him show you and others that he wants you as his girlfriend. Make sure he cares enough about you to hang out, talk on the phone, and always be available when you need him. Please, wait until you able to handle the consequences before you engage in adult behavior.

The odds are that you lucked out this time. So have a good cry and learn something from the experience. Being a woman is not easy, it calls for all the intelligence and determination you have.

I do not believe in abortion. I believe at this point, I would not say anything to him right away, especially if you are not sure. If you are, will its not the end of the world, you world will be turned around, but it maybe the best thing that has even happenned to you in your life. It may not feel like it now, but it will. I would not change being a father for anything in the world. I am a single father of a 7yo daughter. Granted it is not easy, but with help it is worth every bit of lost sleep. I still need help, and my mother helps and my sister helps, but it gets done. I wish that her mother would be in her life more but that is not up to me, just like its not up to you to have the father there if thats the case, but its ok.
You can do it and it is worth it. You will wonder how you lived without the child in the first place. Thinking back now, I wish I would have knocked up alot more women when I was a kid.
I havent been on a date in a very long time though, only drawback, oh and growing a conscience. I have to admit, when she was born, I had to start thinking about the consiquences of my actions and I changed alot, but its for the best. It has made me a better person.

Also, you can have the child and still finish school. It can be done.
Isn’t that right Lillies?
If you have any question, you can shout me, or Lillie, she can tell you alot and she is a good person, who can tell you alot about the subject of raising a child alone and finishing school.

Thanks for that Cajun.

Oh boy, has been a long day.

And an enlightening one too.