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Then don’t see him if he reminds you of a bad relationship.

Try telling your sister how you feel. Maybe she will understand and stop asking you to meet her boyfriend until you are ready.

I don’t doubt that she is a great sister and all but it sounds like she is the one taking it too far, not you. You need time to get your head straight and she only means well, but she has to allow you time to deal with your pain before sharing in her joy. Let her know that you are so happy for her, give her a big hug, and let her know that you still hurt and just want some time to adjust before being around such a happy couple.

-deadinthehead- wrote:
i told her im not ready…she just dont get it. once, she delibrately brought him back home for dinner…and when i saw the extra pair of shoes, i went to the park and sat there…i called home saying i wont be home for dinner…got busy…but in fact i was sitting in the park alone, eating some bread…

i think thats a little exstensive, delibrately? thats a harsh word she’s your little sis and probally just wants you to approve i’d tell her your hurting and just can’t, tell her your happy for her, congratulate her but don’t make it sound like your the victim cause thats what you’ve kinda done here…..not to be mean you haven’t been a bad sister and neither has she so don’t make it sound that way don’t make her sound bad so you can get attention just let her know again she probally doesn’t understand but you can’t blame her…….not to be mean thats just how you made it sound…….

ehh oh well we’ve all done it……….