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so do you get shy when you talk to girls?

Talk to him/her

actually, i’m a girl. & i get really shy when i talk to guys. i feel really hopeless :(

Still…
talk to him…lol

How old are you?

but won’t he think it’s weird when i suddenly talk to him?
then what?
were both 14..

No…
lol
But don’t go into an interview the first time…

Start by hi, and as the weeks pass, maybe ask him what he likes doing or other stuff…

okay.. but is there any other way or “hints” that he’ll know that i like him?

Before that…try talking to him…believe me, you’ll notice if he does….

well.. he always looks at my direction a lot. & one time i wanted to see if he was really looking at me or not.. so i looked at him for like 3 seconds. and then, we both looked in each others eyes but only for a second. so now i know that he looks at me..
this usually happens at lunch & he’s always so close to him whenever i have a class with him.

*he’s always so close to ME.
my bad..

Anonymous wrote:
well.. he always looks at my direction a lot. & one time i wanted to see if he was really looking at me or not.. so i looked at him for like 3 seconds. and then, we both looked in each others eyes but only for a second. so now i know that he looks at me..
this usually happens at lunch & he’s always so close to him whenever i have a class with him.

Then maybe he likes you…try talking to him…remember to do it slowly…

So do you guys think that when a guy and girl do the whole “Is she looking at me?” and then you look, and stare into each others eyes for 5 seconds; does that mean anything?

but heres the thing.. whenever i like someone, they dont like me back & when someone likes me, i dont like them back.. weird…
hahaha anyways, i so shy i cant even say hi.

Well, get over it lol…

lots of ppl are in the same situation…

Or you get over it, or you get used to not having anyone….

okay.. ill try to stay positive?
is it better to start off with a smile?

Yep, smiling is always great ;)

Try to stay calm, and be yourself…it’s the most common thing on earth, and girl talking to a guy…

He probably has the same problem as you do, so don’t worry so much, he’ll probably happy that you’re trying to reach him….

today i found out that he used to like my friend. but i dont know if he still does though. people say yes & i felt kind of bad because everyone likes her..
but she doesnt like him because she says hes too nice.. lol.
well i talked to him online yesterday because someone dared me to and i was like whatever.. & he knew who i was when i was talking to him so yeah..

so it was good..right?

what was good? sorry..

the chat, it went good

*went alright

yeah pretty good :)

great!

keep it up then!

but i want to be his friend in real person.
im just way too shy to go up and talk to him. & i dont think he’s going to talk to me first anyways.

well, at least you gave it a try and everything went fine…

when you’re talking to him for real, if you don’t have nothing to say, just finish the conversation and go away

haha, go away?
well right now, my friend ( the one he likes or used to like ) is helping me out with him. because they’re close friends & stuff. i have no idea what shes up to but i’ll just stick with it i guess?

sure!

that’s always great!