Love help: do i continue to love him even though i never see him again and - Help.com

if you love him then you love him and that some thing you cant just stop doing if its really love you would need to ask this question

Well, you might love him but you have to let him go. Focus too much on him and you start losing your grip on you.

It can take a long time to get over somebody, but it can be done. I was once in love to the point where I’d go to bed in fear of the thought of living without her. I’d see her when I closed my eyes, smell her perfume randomly, and just committed my life to her, etc. I was convinced that I’d always love her. I was wrong, I got over her, a long, painful (and I mean PAINFUL!!) process, but it happens.

Love is a combination of chemicals in our brain, and over time, they will balance out to neutral levels (meaning “not in love”) if not stimulated. If you keep thinking about him or actively bringing him into memory, it will be a lot harder to get over him because you’re stirring those “love chemicals.” Try to ignore it and let it go, even though it’s hard and you don’t want to. In time it will pass, even if it feels like that’s impossible. Trust me, I’ve been through this.

Love always finds a way if the feeling is mutual. Find a way to connect. It’s worth it if you can’t get the idea outta your mind. Believe me when I say it’s okay to feel this way. I’m missing someone right now too.

That’s great thing about a strong mental connection with someone. It can feel just as strong no matter where they are. Even if they were on the moon….your heart would be with them. ;)