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he lets you touch without much resistance coz its kinda what men do if they are really close friends haha its called a gay test or gay chicken lol, hes either very good at it or he could be gay too, have you come out yet does he know your gay? if he does its likely he is to and that’s the reason if he doesn’t know he could just think your fooling around.

No, I have not come out yet. Some people suggest me being gay but that is just usually typical all boy school teasing. He might have a hint that I am gay. The thing is he watches normal adult videos; if you get me. I always help him with everything and always do everything for him…

well, did he get an erection when you touched him, i mean i sometimes kiss guys but im not attracted to them ( Narg2 can tell you this ) for example if i am kissing a girl that i really like i will very often get an erection or if they were to grab my crotch that would get me “exited” too, i have never felt like that about any guy ive ever kissed, and yes guys have touched my crotch. i don’t think he is gay to be honest and you should just forget about ever being partners, he is your friend and don’t risk that by coming on to him or anything stupid like that he isn’t gay and you should look else where for now, but you should now be thinking about coming out and you will need your friends to support you so don’t alienate him from you by coming on to him and freaking him out.

Ja I agree with Dr Awesome, although its not something I know much about to be honest… Erm… Firstly you should come out to your friends, before trying to act on what you feel…

Ja, Dr Awesome has kissed 3 of my guy friends… You know, Scott still refers to you as “the love of his life”, I don’t think he can get you out of his head, its luuure :P

I am pretty sure that he got an erection. He didn’t want to stand up for about 5 minutes.

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I am pretty sure that he got an erection. He didn’t want to stand up for about 5 minutes.

well before you act more on it you should come out, it may be best to come out to all of your friends at the same time, but if you really trust this one friend then if your more comfortable with it come out to him at first and ask him to keep it a secret until you want to tell everyone else.

well before you act more on it you should come out, it may be best to come out to all of your friends at the same time, but if you really trust this one friend then if your more comfortable with it come out to him at first and ask him to keep it a secret until you want to tell everyone else.

Yeah it would probably help but I am scared of coming out. I have a gay friend and he knows but that was hard enough, and he’s gay! (we told each other). Unfortunately if I tell him, i will spread around my school like a disease. He may not intend to tell people but it will most probably accidently pop out in a conversation. I still haven’t told my parents although lately I have been feeling a little bit of starightness. Different for me so it feels weird.

coming out isnt as big a deal as you think it is, you will always be labled gay so highscool or in the real world its the same its wrong for this to happen but thats just life right now isnt it, you will have to get used to it.

I know life is tough but I am just not ready for it. I think I won’t tell him directly that I am gay but I will give little hints to it and see if he picks up. I am going to Italy for three weeks in two days so I probably won’t get to tell you what happens for a little while; that’s if you want to know…

dont give him little hints becouse you could interpret his reactions wrong, leave it untill you are ready to come out. okies, just take it easy and step back from him, try to do less for him and more for yourself.