girl help: Is it possible for a guy to fall for a fat girl? - Help.com

absolutely.

Yeah, Sure. Of course.

Yep.

yes you fall in love with the person… and by that i mean their personality looks take second place to some one who can make you smile with just one word.

My girlfriend has a lot of problems but i still love her becouse of the person she is, shes a cutter but i dont see those scars on her arms i only see a loving caring gentle sweet person and that’s the person i love.

danm yes.. y not??
if the girl is nyc…

p.s.. plz reply to my post :(

I have seen ‘fat’ gilrs with boyfriends and even husbands that adored them.

It’s not possible if the girl doesn’t think so. Being fat is one thing that doesn’t bother guys. What bothers guys is when girls who know they are over weight, lose every sense of hope and confidence, which is thoroughly unattractive.

i know fat girls that have boyfriends or husbands that adore them

man my computer was slow i didnt mean to reply 20 times

yeah suuuure Phuckit, suuuuuure…

lol!

phuckit! wrote:
I have seen ‘fat’ gilrs with boyfriends and even husbands that adored them.

i like how you “quote” the word “fat” cuz hey what r we comparing to right here? i only had one crush in my whole life and the guy was the prettiest man i ever met, still he thinks that the “extra weight” is just the reason why his life “sucks”, i say attractiveness has nothing to do with the mass media’s favorite hotness stereotypes, and hell yeah i know guys who r in luv with chubby girls & one of them was just crying on the phone cuz she dumped him

wow…this is totally like a post I already have.

I can only hope that it’s true…but it has never been the case in my life. :(

Doesn’t really matter how large you are, usually it matters more how much confidence you have and what your personality is like. You could be attractive as owt, but if you had the worst personality ever, you wont ever be in some long lasting relationship.

Yes.

of course. not everyone is shallow

yeah, I’ve done it, and I’m considered to be a pretty good catch by most of my female friends.

it’s totally possible, there is no real wall that stands between people on the basis of looks.

Good luck!

Hun, it’s all about the attitude and self-confidence. . .

I would say definitely, I’ve dated the full range from girls that I could lift with one arm (creepy really, at some point they start looking like young boys… not really a turn on) to one girl in particular that would pick me up and spin me in public (very very embarassing).

The personality is really what matters, and to be honest, the skinny ones just kind of exude sheisty personality. They think they own you and that you owe them. The ‘more substantial’ girls however have a healthy respect for themselves and for others. (*Disclaimer* Of course this is not true in all cases, just the majority of those cases to which I have been exposed).

I say pick a girl that’s got about 14% more on her than you got. Makes sense after all, men were built (evolutionarily speaking) to outrun the predator and to capture and beat the prey to death. Women were built with an extra 20% cusion layer to be able to sustain 2 lives in one body (if twins then 3… and so on.)

It is very possible.
It doesn’t matter what they look like.
What matters is how they make you feel(:

I have always said that persomality means more that outside appearances.

For sure its wayyy better than outside looks.
looks aren’t everything.

They arent everything, but there has to be some physical attraction there.
But personality still ranks higher.
And what one person calls unattractive, another calls beautiful. There you find the attraction.
You may find someone who looks like a model, and who is really as far as being an good match. I have dated women who were beautiful and who I didnt want to even hug, because the attraction wasnt there. I have dated women, who everyone asked why I was even hanging around them, but I could not keep my hands off of them when we were alone. So personality and attraction are way more important then anything