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I have reached this stage of my life im 25 single no

girlfriend i guess im just feeling lonley it’s like i feel i have not achieved anything in my life a great opportunity of love has just past me by and thats not the first time that has happened im kind of a quite person and sometimes shy maybe thats my problem but would realy like some advice im not happy in my job im trying to find a new one but nothing is happening guess im just kind of low at this minute i just want to have a good life and be happy but i keep feeling my life is passing me by what should I do?

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WalkingAlone offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

So your problem is your relations with other people, something that affects your job too?

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paulHynes offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I do not know maybe thats the problem

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WalkingAlone offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

This is something that we can not solve in one day. In a discussion board. This is something that you need to discuss with someone, at least every 15 days. Visit a professional.

I can only give some advices:
Do not give so much sense to details
If you are interested in making a relationship with someone, tell him. Do not be shy. If he/she deny the results will be the same as if you hadn’t. Nothing to lose.

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iwana offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Hey there, your journey in life is relatively new. 25 is very young, so don’t put so much pressure on yourself. Keep your eyes open and keep yourself out there, and relationships will come up.

You have so much ahead of you!

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Coalesce offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

1) Find something you love and be passionate about it.

2) Find someone you love and be passionate about them.

3) Fail at one of the above and get pissed about it.

The three cornerstones of a full and beautiful life.

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downman1 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

Hey that doesn’t sound great. BUT you can change it. two of the things that keeps most men from a relationship is confidence and the fear of women.
Both can be changed.

Confidence is key. I would sujuset confidence mp3s. working out. AND buying clothes that you like and look good in. or just favorite combos. If you love the skin your in everone else will

fear of women Can only be done in baby steps. Start with smiles of random women you see, then when you can do that comfortably you start conversations.

One problem i think most guys face is called one girlirized. There are hundreeds of women out there so its not good to focus on only one. Most of the time they don’t like you back.

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chev.jame offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

You should join the military. That way, when someone asks you what you did during the war on terrorism, you WON’T have to say, “I shoveled s**t in Louisiana! To paraphrase General Patton . . . but seriously, why much around in some dead-end civilian job when you can get college benefits and really make something out of yourself?

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paulHynes offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

as much as i respect what the millitary do there is no way i would do that or be killed just so some billionaire who makes a profet out of the war and the arms dealers makeing more millions!there the only winners in this war as much as i no what your saying i do not think i would beefit anything out of that because if i was an hero in my country i would soon be forgotten about!

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 49 minutes after post)

ahah I’m really shy too. I’m 25 too and just finished school. Some girls like shy guys. ahah find one!

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downman1 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (21 hours, 8 minutes after post)

There is a difference between shy and quiet. Quiet confident guys are what girls want. some one who is too afraid to talk to a a girl they dont. CONFIDENCE IS KEY

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