friends help: I’m 23 a college spohmore with no children feelinglost in the world. - Help.com

I’d say concentrate first on doing what you love to do. Odds are that is where you are going to find people that will love you for who you are.

Once you have a good crew running, the rest really just falls into place :)

Do what you love, and be with the people you love :)

BEWARE: Wanting kids this young may lead to ‘accidental’ impregnation, leading to sudden ‘love’ and desire to be with your partner ‘forever’. Which may lead to ‘mid-life crisis’.

Why would you want children in college?

Seems to me like you’ve kinda lost your focus on what you want in life. Why are you in college, what are you working towards? Might be time to rethink that and figure out if you’re going where you really want to be. If not, change your focus. You said the ‘friends you adapt to’… meaning that you know when you ‘adapt’ that they aren’t what you really want. To find the right sort of friends, look in the right places maybe? Are there groups, clubs, classes, on something that interests you? A possible source for like-minded friends there. You still have lots of time to have children. After you do, that is for the rest of your life; and the responsibility is far greater than it is on you now. Maybe a school guidance councelor would be a good choice for you to talk to, see if they have any helpful suggestions for you? Good luck…

Rome–and a life–was not built in a day. What are your goals? What are you doing to realize them? What’s your PLAN? What do you WANT to do? Give us some answers!

Which is more interesting to you on a personal level… finger-painting or duck-hunting?

finger-painting!!! Sorry, got a little distracted… Join a club. Maybe you’ll be able to meet some people :) If your college has a counseling center you could go there to work on your trust issues too…

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Being alone in this vast world is simply a manifastation that you are very much afraid to engaged in any game, including life itself; for it is only a game. if you dont believe me just think of any game, is it not composed Freedom (to make your moves),Barriers (obviously your opponents) and Purpose (your goals after conquaring your opponents)

So go out there and observe Life’s game conditions and play it smart.

Best Regards
Ndaba

I still think you should just start building obsessions. (e.g.) Let’s say you happen to like a particular movie, for some reason it just always makes you feel good when you watch it. Start building rituals around it (not drinking goats blood or anything), like every evening at a certain time start the movie and run it on repeat, even if you turn the volume waaaay down and run it in the background. Find a scene from the movie you like (maybe the two main characters meet up at a coffee shop at some point) on any day that reminds you of the scene, make it a point to stop in at a coffee shop for an hour or two. Just run with it.

Not necessarily productive, but definitely entertaining :)

That will drive you to insanity, if not compleatly changing your personality into animositiy, simply because your mind is so fragile.

So please take care of your inner self; for He is the only differance between life and death. Do not ever engage in Hysterical and aberative activities because the result will lead you to be the victim of hte inhuman Psychaitriests.

Seek ‘real’ happiness that will enhance your SURVIVAL!!

Berst Regards
Ndaba